Q&A for How to Talk Dirty

Return to Full Article

Coming soon

Add New Question

Question

Can dirty talk involve trains?

Community Answer

Dirty talk can involve anything you want it to as long as you are both consenting adults that are considerate of each other's boundaries. (You never know, getting into the train talk could get things steamy and send your partner off the rails.)

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 55 Helpful 365
Question

How often should I talk dirty to my partner?

Community Answer

Every now and then is okay. Just don't make it so much that your relationship revolves around sex and dirty talk.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 46 Helpful 194
Question

Am I doing sex wrong if I don't dirty talk?

Community Answer

Not at all! It's honestly hard for me to say anything because I get shy. It's totally fine not to dirty talk.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 38 Helpful 181
Question

What day of the week is the best to dirty talk?

Community Answer

Any day of the week is fine!

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 19 Helpful 68
Question

How do I get in the mood to have sex?

Community Answer

Take a hot bath or a shower and think of sexy things.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 18 Helpful 65
Question

Is dirty talk something you can get addicted to?

Community Answer

Not any more so than any other random thing. People can potentially get psychologically addicted to anything, but 'dirty talk addiction' is pretty much unheard of.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 15 Helpful 47
Question

Is it okay to masturbate during dirty talk?

Community Answer

Yes, it's normal and usually expected for you to masturbate during dirty talking. (You should get the consent of the person you're speaking with though.)

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 7 Helpful 47
Question

Sometimes I hear my partner having dirty talk in my brother's bedroom. They say that they are practising a play but I never knew he was an actor. What should I do?

KMG46219

Community Answer

Ask your brother. Tell your brother that all that matters is telling the truth. He probably wasn't the cause of whatever 'this' is but it's important to make it clear you know and you've heard what he's been saying.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 19 Helpful 44
Question

How do I know it's the time for it?

Tom De Backer

Top Answerer

Test the waters. Start small: "Hey sexy...", see how the other person responds. Or say something short but intense, and again, gauge the response. If the other person is in the mood too, things will naturally continue from there.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 10 Helpful 48
Question

If we're not having sex yet, should I talk dirty?

Community Answer

Probably not. You’re not in that kind of a relationship yet.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 1 Helpful 1