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What do you say to your crush when you like them?

Erika Kaplan
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Erika Kaplan is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker for Three Day Rule, an exclusive matchmaking company across nine cities in the United States. With over six years of experience, Erika specializes in helping singles find quality matches through date coaching and premium matchmaking services. Erika graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s degree in Public Relations. She worked for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal before leaving publishing to pursue her passion for connecting people. Erika has been featured on Lifetime, the Philadelphia Inquirer, and CBS as well as in Thrillist, Elite Daily, Men’s Health, Fast Company, and Refinery29.

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There are no hard and fast rules here. You just have to speak your truth. Be honest, and articulate how you feel in a genuine way. Go in with the assumption that this is going to go well if you need a little boost of confidence. If they don't respond well, don't worry about it! Shake it off and move on.

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What if I'm really nervous?

Erika Kaplan
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Erika Kaplan is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker for Three Day Rule, an exclusive matchmaking company across nine cities in the United States. With over six years of experience, Erika specializes in helping singles find quality matches through date coaching and premium matchmaking services. Erika graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s degree in Public Relations. She worked for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal before leaving publishing to pursue her passion for connecting people. Erika has been featured on Lifetime, the Philadelphia Inquirer, and CBS as well as in Thrillist, Elite Daily, Men’s Health, Fast Company, and Refinery29.

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Do whatever you can to pump yourself up before you go through with it! Remember, even if you it doesn't go exactly the way you want, you can only control what you do. You have nothing to be nervous about, and there's no need to overthink it. Speak what's true to you!

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What happens if she doesn't wanna talk to you anymore?

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Unfortunately, you'll have to take that risk. Your crush may not be interested in you the same way you are in them. If that's the case, respect your crush's feelings and decision, and move on.

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I know a lot of friends who have the same crush, and I don't want them to know and get mad. Is an anonymous note a good idea?

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An anonymous note won't result in any action -- your crush won't know who wrote it or who likes them. It's best to tell your crush that YOU like them. That way, if they feel the same, you can move forward. And, if not, you can move on. Be direct and honest with your friends as well. It's not a good idea to hide your feelings or a potential relationship from them. That will only make them mad at you for keeping secrets.

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