The way he looks at you
There may be an air of awe, serenity, and inner calm when he looks at you (and only you). His gaze will always be oriented toward you from across the room.
Your happiness is just as important as his
A man who loves you will find out what makes you happy and do those things regularly. If you’re happy, he’s happy.
Examples:
“I know how you love scented candles, so I went ahead and set the ambiance at home.”
“I know you love it when I dress up, so I got fancy just for you.”
He wants to share his whole life
A man who loves you will want to introduce you to his friends and family because he wants them to love you as much as he does. He will also be eager to meet (and grow to love and respect) your friends and family.
Examples:
“I can’t wait for you to meet my Mom, you two are going to hit it off!”
“I’ve been bragging about you to my friends and they can’t wait to meet you.”
He supports your goals and dreams
He fully supports you in the pursuit of your goals/passions and celebrates your achievements.
Examples:
“What you’re doing is amazing and you have my full support.”
“I love how passionate you are about children, you’re really making a difference and I’m proud of you.”
He makes plans for the future
From vacations to holidays and the years to come, a man who loves you will talk about your future plans together as a unit.
Examples:
“Maybe next year we can skip town for the holidays…”
“Ten years from now you’ll still be absolutely stunning.”
He really sees you
He notices things about you that others don't, like how you process emotions, how your mind works, and how you make others feel in your presence.
Examples:
“I love how you just brightened that woman’s day.”
“I know you tend to close off when you’re feeling stressed, anything I can do to help you relax?”
He makes you a priority
A man who loves you will always carve out time to see you or talk to you, no matter how busy he is.
Examples:
“I still have a ton of work to do but you’re far more important than silly tax documents.”
“I’m more than happy to skip running errands to be with you.”
He's there for you even when it's inconvenient
If you're having a hard time, he will be there to support you even if he'd rather be somewhere else.
Examples:
“I’m sorry you’re going through this rough patch, I’m here for you.”
“It hurts to see you so down, what can I do to cheer you up?”
He asks for your advice
He cares about what you think and takes your advice to heart.
Examples:
“I’m really glad I asked you about what to give my Mom for her birthday, she loves her new subscription box!”
“Do you think I should extend my loan or…?”
He pays attention to the little things
He remembers small details and puts in extra effort to do little things for you.
Examples:
“I remembered you said you don’t like olives, so I picked them off the top for you.”
“I got you 6 sunflowers, because 6 is your lucky number.”
He argues to understand
During any disagreements you may have, he argues with the intention to better understand you and your relationship (instead of arguing to be “right” or “win”).
Examples:
“I want to understand why we have so much trouble communicating when these issues come up so we can move forward.”
“I want to understand what led to your frustration so I can avoid it from here on out.”
He expresses his love verbally and nonverbally
A man who loves you will express verbal appreciation and show physical affection regularly (not just when he wants something). He wants to make you feel loved.
Examples:
“I love every inch of you, babe.”
“I love holding your hand and feeling your heartbeat through your palm.”