Verbal affirmations Verbally expressing your love either in person or over the phone will increase your bond. “I love you!” “I’m thinking about you.” “I miss you, my love!” Long distance affirmations If you’re in a long distance relationship or far apart from a loved one, use video chat so both of you can pick up on physical cues while expressing affection. Give compliments Giving compliments to people you care about boosts their confidence and motivates them to succeed. Focus on their personality traits, admiral qualities, accomplishments, or how they make others feel. “You have such a great personality—you really light up the room!” “You are such a brilliant person, I admire your passion for reading.” “I love that beautiful, warm smile of yours!” Give loved ones your full attention When your family members, friends, or loved ones enter a room, stop what you’re doing and greet them with your full attention. Use nicknames Calling someone by a nickname shows you have a special bond—just be sure they’re happy with the nickname. “Good afternoon, my lovely Lucy, how was work today?” “Hey muffin, I missed you!” “I’m glad you’re home, cowboy!” Show gratitude Look your loved one in the eyes and express your appreciation for who they are and what they do. “I am so grateful to have you in my life, sweetie.” “I appreciate how thoughtful you are.” “I love how your mind works, hon, thank you for your input.”