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Why do I worry so much for no reason?

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There's a part of our brain that imagines, and another one that focuses on emotions. Unfortunately, these parts don't always speak the same language, so it's easy to get anxious about ideas and things we're imagining.

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How do I train my brain to stop worrying?

Ashley Smith, PhD
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Dr. Ashley Smith is a licensed psychologist, co-founder of Peak Mind: The Center for Psychological Strength, speaker, and author of The Way I See It: A Psychologist’s Guide to a Happier Life. She is a sought-after anxiety expert and outspoken advocate dedicated to changing the way we approach mental health and wellbeing. Dr. Ashley is also open about learning to thrive with a rare visual impairment. The combination of her professional expertise and personal experiences put her in a unique position to educate and inspire. She is passionate about helping others live bold, happy lives while performing at their peak.

Ashley Smith, PhD

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Ask if yourself if your problem is real or hypothetical. Then, decide if it's imminent, or something you won't have to deal with until the distant future. Take another moment to decide if the problem is in your control or not. Focus on making a plan of the action if your issue is real, imminent, and within your control. If the issue is hypothetical, in the distant future, and/or out of your control, you don't need to worry about it.

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What do you do if you've been accused of something that could get you expelled, but didn't do it?

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In the case of serious offenses (like the kind that can get you kicked out of school), there should be an appeals process of some kind. This is usually overseen by the board of education, and each side will have to present evidence of their story.

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What if you don't want your parents to know?

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If it is a small offense, they may not find out. If the offense was serious, though, the school will likely contact your parents whether you want them to or not.

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