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Jove Meyer

Professional Wedding & Event Planner

Jove Meyer is the founder and principal of Jove Meyer Events. An award-winning event planner, designer, and LGBTQ+ advocate, Jove’s work has been featured in Vogue, The New York Times, Refinery29, Martha Stewart, and more. Jove has been named as a “Wedding Guru” from US Weekly and as one of the top wedding planners in the USA from The Knot, Brides, Harper's Bazaar, Over the Moon, and WedVibes.

Education

  • BA, Political Science, Columbia University

Professional Achievements

  • Featured in multiple publications, including Vogue, Domino Magazine, The New York Times, Martha Stewart, and The Cut
  • Appeared on multiple national television programs, including the Rachael Ray Show, Good Morning America, and the Today Show
  • Host of the popular podcast "Weddings-ish with Jove"
  • Contributing Writer for The Knot Magazine
  • Creator of the Ally Pledge, a signed pledge he shares with partners and vendors to make the wedding and event planning industry more inclusive

Favorite Piece of Advice

You do you! Embrace your authentic story, style, and personality—because that's always the right choice. Swim upstream, dance to the beat of your own drum, and own it—you're fabulous just as you are!

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Need help writing my own wedding vows!
I think writing a vow is something that's super personal and not something you should seek assistance with from a friend or family member. I think it's something you should do alone in the comfort of a place that makes you happy in your life and in your relationships. So if that's your couch in the living room, or your bed in the bedroom, or the beach where you first met, go somewhere that reminds you of your partner and the things you love about them. And I just say start with a list of all the reasons you're marrying this person, all the reasons you went on a second date with this person, all the reasons you got engaged to this person, and those things should come to mind. Whether that's because they're hot, they're sweet or smart, they're kind, whatever it is, write down those first key words that come to mind. And then once you have the ones you feel really solid about, begin to fill it out with sentences.

For example, if you say they're smart, write a few sentences as to how they're smart, or stories or moments that showed you that they were smart, or that they're compassionate, caring, loving, handsome, a good kisser, good dancer, whatever it is. I think it's a good exercise to have. And it's a great way to look back on your time together pre-wedding, so that you can bring those memories into the ceremony. Of course, we don't need it to be super long. But I say having a long list is better. And then you can go through and shorten what you guys decide as a couple about how long they're going to spend. If you want to make it equal or if you're totally surprising each other, then I'd say trust your gut and your heart because it led you to where you were, which is marrying the person of your dreams.

Co-authored Articles (16)

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MC a Wedding

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Host a Murder Mystery Party

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150+ Messages to Write in a Bridal Shower Card

Say congratulations to the happy couple with these best wishesWould you like to congratulate a bride-to-be, but are unsure what to write in a wedding shower card? Ahead you’ll find 150+ unique bridal shower card messag...

How to Decorate a Wedding Car with Ribbon

Have some newlyweds who want to ride off into the sunset with a decorated wedding car? If that’s the case, you’ve got so many gorgeous add-ons to work with. Whether you want a bumper decked out in ribbons or windows ...

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Run a Silent Auction

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60+ Wedding Card Wishes for a Niece & How to Write the Perfect Message

Sweet, funny, and heartfelt wedding card examples for a niece Gifting someone a card to celebrate their wedding is a popular tradition. If you're wondering what to write in a wedding card for your niece, we’re here to ...

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What shoes should I wear with my wedding dress?

Everyone always focuses on the dress, but the shoes you wear to your wedding are also an important choice. After all, you’ll be on your feet during the ceremony, while you’re taking photos, and when you’re tearing ...

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How can I decorate my sweetheart table?

A sweetheart table can help prevent any drama surrounding who you sit with at your wedding, and it’s just nice for there to be a romantic seating area for just you and your partner to enjoy together. When it comes to d...

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How can I create unique wedding invitations?

Designing your own unique wedding invitations is a great opportunity to reflect you and your partner’s personalities and styles and make your wedding feel more personal. In this video, Event Planner and Designer Jove M...

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How can I build my own wedding bouquets?

Making your own wedding bouquet can help you save money, and you get to completely customize it so it feels more personal. Not just any flowers will work though, and there are some things you’ll want to keep in mind so...

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How can I decorate a car for my drive-away?

A classic drive-away in a beautifully decorated car is the perfect end to a fairytale wedding. There are endless possibilities when it comes to decorating your drive-away car, and in this video, Event Planner and Designe...

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How do I start a budget for my wedding?

So much goes into planning a beautiful, unforgettable wedding, and it all starts with a well-thought-out budget. If you’re not sure where to begin when it comes to creating a budget for your wedding, don’t worry! In ...

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How do I choose a wedding florist?

The right flowers can totally transform a wedding venue and make your special day even more beautiful, but how do you go about choosing a wedding florist? In this video, Event Planner and Designer Jove Meyer shares his f...

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What are common myths about wedding planning?

We’ve all heard stories and seen countless movies about wedding planning mayhem—demanding bridezillas, invitation drama, and last-minute cancellations—but how much of that is actually the norm when planning a weddi...