The bend and snap is a very effective flirting move. However, doing it in heels can be difficult, so if you want to learn how to do the move in heels then stay tuned.
Steps
Part 1
Part 1 of 2:
Bending
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Drop something on the floor. This could be anything from an eyeliner pencil to a spoon. But make sure that this item isn't breakable and don't drop this item on purpose unless you're practicing at home, practice at home frequently to ensure you're doing the move correctly.
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Look innocently at your crush. This is very important because in order for this to work your crush's attention needs to be on you. Make sure that your expression looks realistic. If it looks fake, it'll end up looking funny and will be ineffective.Advertisement
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Place your right leg in front of you. This part is very important, however, don't bend your heel like you normally would if you were wearing sneakers. Doing so will make you lose your balance and could even cause you to fall, instead, keep your leg straight while you bend down. If you're left handed, use your left leg and left hand instead.
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Bend down to pick up the item. Bend down towards the ground to pick up the item. It's also very important to make sure that your hair flips back behind your head so that you'll be ready for the snap.
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Run your right hand down your leg. This is another important part of the bend and snap as it brings attention to your legs which works especially if you have long, beautiful legs.Advertisement
Part 2
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Snapping
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Grab the item. Once the item is in your hand, quickly snap back up to standing but don't do this too quickly, you'll end up straining your neck if you do as well as risking injury.
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Snap back up. Snap back up to standing while arching your back at the same time, this is the most important part of the bend and snap and arching your back will prevent injury. After you snap back up to standing, flip your hair behind your head.
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Flip your hair after you snap back up. Hair flipping is another effect flirting move as it shows confidence, this is also a very feminine action and brings attention to your beautiful locks. Smiling is also very important not only for flirting but in general because it shows that you're confident and happy. Take your hair to the back of your head, then flip your hair to the back of your head.
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Approach him if possible. If you can do this then try to approach him after doing your bend and snap. For example, you could ask him if he wants to see a movie or get some ice cream after school or work. You could also ask him what his favorite movies or books are to strike up a conversation. Be careful, however, about doing this at work or at school. This is ok on a break but not during class or when you are supposed to be working.
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Be confident. Confidence is very important especially when you're flirting because it shows that you feel good in your own skin which is the most attractive trait a woman can have.Advertisement
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