Are Virgo and Aries compatible?
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Aries and Virgo tend to be pretty different, so they might face some challenges as a couple. As a steady, grounded earth sign, Virgo likes to have things planned out, and they’re usually on the introverted side. Fire sign Aries, on the other hand, is known for being bold, fearless, and maybe even a little bit reckless. These different energies can cause some friction in the relationship—Virgo’s need for organization can make Aries feel stifled, and Aries’s impulsivity might make Virgo feel nervous.
If Aries and Virgo are willing to compromise and learn from each other, however, they can make a good match. Aries can teach shy, responsible Virgo to get out of their shell and take a few risks, and Virgo can help Aries pursue their goals and passions in a steady, consistent way. All-in-all, this pair can grow together and form a strong bond if they’re willing to put in a little work!
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If Aries and Virgo are willing to compromise and learn from each other, however, they can make a good match. Aries can teach shy, responsible Virgo to get out of their shell and take a few risks, and Virgo can help Aries pursue their goals and passions in a steady, consistent way. All-in-all, this pair can grow together and form a strong bond if they’re willing to put in a little work!
Virgo is what I like to call a “user-friendly” sign. Virgos tend to be very practical, direct, and easy to understand. If a Virgo is upset, they’ll tell you. Now, Virgos get a lot of flak from people for those qualities, but it’s actually a good thing a lot of the time.
Now, Aries are usually super direct. It can actually come off as aggressive a lot of the time. You may see where this is going—there’s not a lot of complexity or caution here for an Aries-Virgo couple. These are two signs with a lot of forward-facing energy. Now, romance-wise this will be a blast. Aries is passionate and impulsive, which helps Virgo get out of their shell in the bedroom. It can be tough on the communication front, though.
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Now, Aries are usually super direct. It can actually come off as aggressive a lot of the time. You may see where this is going—there’s not a lot of complexity or caution here for an Aries-Virgo couple. These are two signs with a lot of forward-facing energy. Now, romance-wise this will be a blast. Aries is passionate and impulsive, which helps Virgo get out of their shell in the bedroom. It can be tough on the communication front, though.
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I usually think of Aries as a more expressive and vivacious sign, while Virgo is kind of quiet and boring. But if you think about the two in the context of communication, Aries is straightforward and emotional while Virgo is straightforward and unemotional. I can totally see how it would lead to conflict. At the same time, one of my best friends is an Aries and she’s dating a Virgo. They seem super happy. I think my friend’s goofiness is sort of brought back to earth by her Virgo partner’s coolness and obsession with practicality. I think it’s a good combo!
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I think the biggest crossroads that a Virgo/Aries couple will face is usually the fact that they don’t often have a lot in common. Virgos are usually kind of hermits who don’t mind their alone time, while Aries needs to be exploring and socializing out in the world. Now, this isn’t always the biggest deal if both partners are sort of accepting of the fact that Aries needs to run around and Virgo needs to stay at home sometimes. Like, if you can be really adult about it, it’s no big deal. But if people start getting possessive and jealous it’s going to get ugly real fast.
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Virgo here, I had a relationship with an Aries that, while we aren't still together, did last quite a long time and we even lived together for a while. I would say this pairing can definitely work. He needed a lot of space and time to go do new things, etc., but I was a homebody content to hang out alone and wait for him so that worked. And we were pretty good about communicating with each other too. But like others said the emotional vs. unemotional personalities could clash now and then. I wouldn't say that's what did us in but it didn't help, ha ha.
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Virgo is an earth sign and Aries is a fire sign. Those two can either combine to be a consistent source of warmth in an otherwise cold world, or they can ignite and burn down everything around them. What I’m getting at is that this can be a great thing or a really rough time depending on how things start out. So to answer your question, yes. These signs are compatible. However, it’s the kind of compatibility that requires a little bit of care and consideration—especially early on in the relationship when boundaries aren’t crazy clear yet.
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I think virgo and aries make a great pairing. I'm a virgo and my husband is an aries. in my experience, virgos are a great source of stability for the relationship and aries are like the engine that helps propel the relationship further, using virgo's stability as a foundation. for example, I'm good at planning and organizing, and my husband is good at taking initiative and actually putting those plans into action. I ground us and he brings in spontaneity.
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