What to write in a Bar Mitzvah card?

View hidden comment
This post was sourced from submitted reader questions and posted by wikiHow Editorial Staff.
Reply to Post

Expert Comments

wikiHow Expert
Avrohom Rapoport
Rabbi and Judaism Expert
06/18/25 6:39pm
When you’re writing a bar mitzvah card, you would say “Mazl tov.” That's the most common thing you would tell someone. “Mazl” is luck, and “tov” means good, so it translates to “good luck.” We say “mazl tov” at a bar mitzvah, at a wedding, and at a baby’s birth.
View hidden comment
wikiHow Expert
Roi Bracha
Hebrew Teacher
06/18/25 6:42pm
When you’re writing a Bar Mitzvah card, you could say “Mazel tov,” which is like saying “Congratulations” or “I’m wishing you success.” It’s nice to acknowledge they’re no longer a kid, and that they’re more responsible and mature. Even if they seem young, make them feel good about growing up and don’t treat them like a child.
View hidden comment
Reply to Post

What’s on your mind? Ask anything.

Get advice and feedback from experts and wikiHow readers just like you.

Ask a Question

More Forum Discussions