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I've tried everything and can't lose weight!

WikiKangarooKeeper877
06/01/24 9:04 AM
I've struggled with my weight all my life and feel like I've tried everything. Cardio, weight training, calorie counting, fasting, going vegetarian, cutting carbs, you name it. I'm tired of never seeing results and am at a loss for what to do. Please help!
wikiHow Expert
06/01/24 11:55 AM
There are many common mistakes people make when trying to lose weight. People usually try to lose weight using a mixture of intense exercise and low-calorie diet, which often makes them hungry and cranky and leads to them breaking the diet and either failing to lose weight or even gaining more weight. Calorie counting without taking into consideration the quality of calories is another common mistake. Eating your food at certain times is also critical to guarantee hormonal balance and optimal fat loss. People also often consume too much protein to lose weight. Unless you're a competitive athlete or lift weights daily, you do not need to consume tons of protein to keep your metabolism going or improve it. Excess protein intake has been linked with higher risk of cancer development in the long term and healthier societies, such as Blue Zones, do not consume a lot of protein daily.
WikiCloudCatcher919
06/03/24 2:58 PM
Omg breaking your diet because you're hungry and cranky is so real!! I used to be hangry all the time when I was trying intemittent fasting. I found myself constantly thinking about food and fighting the urge to snack because the food I was eating was not filling me up. I really suggest that (if you choose to diet), you try something that leaves you in a calorie deficit while still giving you enough to eat, otherwise it will be a mental struggle for you to stick with your diet and you'll just end up feeling crappy all the time. There's lots of low-calorie recipes on the internet these days, so that's a great place to start!
wikiHow Expert
06/03/24 8:56 PM
If you're having trouble losing weight, one thing to consider is how and when you eat food. The time at which you consume food during the day impacts how your body is going to digest and metabolize it. There's growing evidence that eating food late at night leads to more fat storage as opposed to eating foods during the day. It's easier to burn those calories when you eat them during the day.

So many different factors, including hormones, come into play with weight loss. Even if you're eating a calorie-restricted diet, you'll struggle to lose weight if your system is in a state of chronic stress. A lot of people's bodies are under psychological stress from work, finances, social isolation, etc. But some people may also experience chemical stressors from heavy metals, mercury, lead, arsenic, and things like mold that can be growing in their home.

When you add chemical or psychological stressors to physical stressors (like not getting enough sleep or having an infuriating boss), the body is suddenly in a compromised position. All of those factors will interfere with weight loss. I like to say that relaxation is actually one of the best tools you can use to help your body lose weight. If the body is always in a stress response and physiologically pumping out stress hormones and cortisol and adrenaline, it makes it much more difficult for your body to burn fat. I think that's a hidden piece of the puzzle that people might overlook. Generally, trying to have good stress management is actually really important for losing weight.
WikiLynxBearer275
06/04/24 2:55 PM
What helped me lose weight was being diligent about counting my calories. Before I tracked my calories, I would just eat what I thought was "healthy," like a salad or chicken breast, but I didn't realize that I was underestimating how many calories I was eating because things I didn't take into account, like drizzling olive oil on my salad or cooking my chicken in too much oil or putting creamer in my coffee or having a tiny nibble here and there, really added up. There were 100s of calories a day I was consuming that I wasn't even aware of. After I got better about tracking literally everything I was putting into my body, I was able to better adjust my intake and managed to start losing weight.
WikiLemmingDiver963
06/04/24 7:55 PM
Sugary drinks were the culprit for me when I was struggling to lose weight. I'd skip meals and eat tiny portions to lower my calorie intake, but then had absolutely no self control when it came to boba or soda or going out drinking with friends (alcohol has a LOT of calories). After I made the switch to drinking water only, I started dropping pounds. I definitely miss my sweet sips but a diet soda or milk tea with artificial sweetener curbs my cravings when they get really bad.

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Anonymous wikiRabbit
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Whenever you take a bite of food, try to chew for a longer period of time. There are 15 minutes between the time when you're full and the time where you know you're full. If you eat slowly, the chances of overeating are less likely.
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Don't start a weight loss journey alone. Find support from friends and family members who may also want to lose weight, or join a weight loss support group in your community. You can also find support in many online weight loss forums.
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Anonymous wikiPony
Add more movement into your day by using a standing desk at work, taking the stairs, parking far from your destination, and performing your errands by walking or biking whenever possible.
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Anonymous wikiParrot
Water is incredibly important. Make sure you drink at least 8 glasses per day.
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Anonymous wikiGecko
Try and eat at home more often because at a restaurant you don't know what's going into the food, but at home you know exactly what's put into it.
Anonymous wikiNarwhal
Anonymous wikiNarwhal
Try finding healthy substitutes for foods you like to snack on that aren't good for you. Sweet candy? Eat a fruit. Donuts or cake? Eat a bagel instead. Slowly find ways you can swap out your unhealthy lifestyle to a better one, not all at once, but gradually.
Anonymous wikiDolphin
Anonymous wikiDolphin
A well balanced diet will help support your weight loss. Include all five food groups - protein, dairy, fruits, vegetables and whole grains.
Anonymous wikiPigeon
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The key to long-term success is to find a diet and lifestyle plan that you can maintain easily. This will help prevent weight regain in the future.
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Anonymous wikiHamster
Always check with your doctor prior to any weight loss program or new diet to make sure your plan is safe and appropriate for you.