Whether you’ve just gotten a job offer or are looking for a pay bump, the same question remains: how do you get paid what you’re worth? In a salary negotiation, people often make the mistake of underestimating their leverage and power. That may be why 40% of Americans feel like they’re underpaid. [1] X Research source No worries, though. We’ve put together a comprehensive guide to help you prepare and know exactly what to say. Read on to find out how to get the salary you deserve—and to learn why you might have more of a negotiation advantage than you think.
Steps
How Do You Negotiate a Job Offer?
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I go into a salary negotiation prepared?Jessica Notini is a Negotiation and Mediation Coach practicing in California and internationally in many Latin countries. She is also a Lecturer at Stanford Law School and an Adjunct Professor at Boalt School of Law, Hastings College of the Law, and Mills College's MBA Program. She is the past Chair of the California State Bar Alternative Dispute Resolution Committee, served as the President of the Association for Dispute Resolution of Northern California (formerly NCMA), and was a member of the Board of Directors for the Mediation Society of San Francisco. She was recognized for her leadership and years of dedication with the California Dispute Resolution Council’s 2012 Don Weckstein Award. She has a BA in Psychology from Wesleyan University and a JD from the University of Michigan.Put yourself in the shoes of your counterpart negotiator. What do you think their interests are? The mistake a lot of negotiators make is just thinking about themselves not thinking about how they're really going to reach and connect with the person they're negotiating with.
Tips
- See if you can schedule your salary negotiation for a Thursday or Friday. Some research suggests that people become more flexible and agreeable as the week goes on. [22] X Research sourceThanks
- Try to view salary negotiations as a positive opportunity rather than a dreaded conversation. You deserve to be paid what you’re worth! [23] X Research sourceThanks
Tips from our Readers
- Don't go into too many details explaining why you need a higher salary. Giving too much information can weaken your bargaining position and it could be harder to negotiate the salary you want.
- Consider saying that you have an offer from another company for a higher salary. Your original employer may increase the salary they can give you so you don't take a different offer.
References
- ↑ https://news.gallup.com/poll/241682/four-workers-think-underpaid.aspx
- ↑ https://careerengagement.utexas.edu/undergraduate-students/prepare/offer-salary-negotiation/
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- ↑ https://hbr.org/2017/04/6-ways-to-look-more-confident-during-a-presentation
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/alexandradickinson/2017/08/29/how-to-know-when-its-time-to-walk-away-from-a-negotiation/?sh=77f6a0f66611
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2021/12/dont-ask-for-a-raise-negotiate-it
- ↑ https://www.fastcompany.com/90370098/these-instant-confidence-boosters-can-help-you-overcome-your-nerves
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2015/12/first-salary
- ↑ https://www.wsj.com/articles/how-to-negotiate-a-job-offer-the-dos-and-donts-11607553703
- ↑ https://www.ncda.org/aws/NCDA/pt/sd/news_article/283945/_PARENT/CC_layout_details/false
- ↑ Jessica Notini, JD. Negotiation & Mediation Coach. Expert Interview. 27 March 2020.
- ↑ https://www.wsj.com/articles/how-to-negotiate-a-job-offer-the-dos-and-donts-11607553703
- ↑ https://my.pba.edu/ICS/icsfs/10_Questions_to_Ask_When_Negotiating_Salary.pdf?target=0b846020-ba7e-4550-98e4-19fbfefbeb73
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/markcperna/2021/04/13/6-tips-to-negotiate-your-salary-with-confidence-and-get-what-youre-worth/?sh=350a697935f3
- ↑ https://www.wsj.com/articles/how-to-negotiate-and-counter-a-job-offer-11607356041?mod=article_inline
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- ↑ https://careerengagement.utexas.edu/undergraduate-students/prepare/offer-salary-negotiation/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/199809/if-its-thursday-ask-raise
- ↑ https://ucfalumni.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/CAREER_6_Tips_to_Negotiate_Your_Salary_with_Confidence_GUIDE.pdf
About This Article
To negotiate your salary, start by researching online and asking coworkers what their salaries are so you don’t start bargaining too low. When your employer makes an offer, reject it politely and present a counter-offer. Explain confidently why you deserve a higher salary, but avoid sounding aggressive or demanding. After the employer makes a final offer, ask for 1-2 days to consider it. If it is below your minimum, be prepared to walk away, but also consider if you can get other benefits since the salary is lower. To learn more from our Civil Litigator co-author, such as how to get the offer in writing, keep reading the article!