Q&A for How to Convince Your Parents to Let You Get Social Media

Try to understand why they said no. If you ask to be allowed to get back at midnight and they say 10 PM, instead of getting angry, try to understand why that is. You’ll get an honest answer. If you can understand where they're coming from, you can address that point, and maybe promise them that you understand them. In due time, they will start to trust you more.

Explain the benefits of WhatsApp to your parents. Emphasize that it can save money, since photos and messages are free over Wi-Fi. You might also consider interviewing a classmate about the app’s benefits and sharing that with your parents. If possible, get insights from another parent who uses WhatsApp to help your parents understand its advantages from a peer's viewpoint.

Prove that you're mature enough. Bring back incidents where you were able to do certain tasks that other 13-year-olds wouldn't be able to do. You can also cite that many kids you age, including your friends, use social media to talk and share their thoughts. You could also take a hobby of yours and explain how certain social media applications can help fuel your ambitions with that hobby.

Tell your parents that your friends have a group and you feel left out. Offer to have a trial period or limited time usage on the app. You can also use your hobbies as a reason, like saying, "I'd like to learn some football tricks on TikTok."

It won't be too long until you turn 18. Then you won’t have to get your parents’ permission before you make a social media account. If your mum gets mad at you then, remind her that you’re legally an adult and can make your own decisions. In the meantime, don't bother comparing yourself to your friends, because every parent has different rules. Besides, there are plenty of other people your age who don’t have Snapchat or TikTok.

If you find it hard to talk to your parents about what you want, a letter is an alternative. You can write multiple drafts 'til you get it right, so you can say everything just the way you want to say it.

Explain that you will use Facebook to learn tips for the sport you play. Suggest a trial period with a specific time of use.

You could get a YouTube channel because you want to show a skill to your community, such as a cooking channel. Another reason could be to give people advice, such as a channel where you give advice about school.

Start by waiting until you are ungrounded, as they are incredibly unlikely to give things back while you are still grounded. Maybe they will give it back straight away! If not, maybe promise that you will never do it again. Talk to your parents and agree on limits, and tell them they can follow you on their account so they can see what you post.

I would start by waiting until you are 13 - this way, you are legally allowed to have one. Explain that you think you are mature enough and maybe talk to your older sister about what they did that got your mom to give them one.

I would start by waiting until you are 13. After that, explain to him that these apps will allow you to connect with your friends more, that it is a potential job opportunity, and that it could give you a chance to meet more people.

Strictly speaking, none of them; as they all require users to be at least 13 (or higher in some places).

Get/keep good grades, do all your chores, keep track of your current belongings. You can find additional ideas on How to Be Responsible .

There is a safe social networking platform named KidzNet that children, tweens, and teens go on. It's heavily monitored for safety.

Tell your parents that you feel left out, that all of your friends have social media and you're missing out on conversations and invitations by not having it.

Tell your parents that you are almost an adult and are mature enough for something like this. If they refuse, tell them that once you turn 18, you will be opening an account whether they like it or not, as by that point they cannot do anything about it. Suggest that they let you do it now on a trial basis.

They're trying to protect you from predators. Give it a little time.

You are too young for Snapchat and Instagram. You have to be 13+. Maybe next year.

Don't choose tiktok or snapchat, go with another social media platform like Facebook or Twitter. However, be aware that strange people are on all social media platforms. They are unavoidable. Be careful!

Just so you know, people do not become famous when they use social media. For example, do you know all the usernames of people on your chosen social media platform? First, pick one social media platform. Your parents are more likely to say no to you if you ask for multiple social media platforms. Sticking with one is best. I recommend going with Facebook, because you can create a profile and add pictures of yourself and everything. Instagram is also great. Once you've done that, choose a way to express yourself. Will you talk to them face-to-face or will you write a note? Then, create a presentation for them. Finally, get your grades up, then try talking to them again.

Your mom is right, there are a lot of bad things on social media. But, there is a solution. First, pick a social media platform. Snapchat, Instagram, and Facebook are great. But only pick one, otherwise you might not get social media at all. Write a note to her explaining your feelings and why you should get social media. Then, prove you are responsible by doing things without being asked like cleaning your room.

Wait patiently. Try bringing up the subject sometimes (not every day!) and try writing a note to her.

Judging by your current status, you shouldn't get social media at all. Your parents have a good reason not to get you social media. Plus, a phone is a lot of money. If you're desperate, try saving money to buy a phone. Then ask them for permission and promise that you will be careful and not repeat (certain mistake) again.

Try compromising. Ask if you can have social media for your birthday or Christmas. If you're ten, ask if you can get it when you're eleven or ten and a half if you're desperate. Your parents might also be worried that you will spend more time on social media then doing your homework. Before asking for social media again, get your grades up. Try to get As or A+s if possible. You're already doing a good job by using good grammar and spelling in your question. Also, it sounds like you want social media and a phone number. Is this true? If so, I'd advise you to focus on one thing at a time. Anyway, pick a good time to have a talk with your parents and explain everything. They might say yes!

Watch a video on internet safety so that you can become an expert. Then, pick a time when she isn't busy and start the conversation with something like this; "May I talk to you about something?" You could even create an online presentation with reasons why you should get Discord.

Explain that social media is just one more way to talk to friends and that you can put lots of restrictions to ensure that only friends can interact with you. Also, during Covid-19, it can help you stay connected while apart. If they refuse, try again in another 6 months.

It would be very understandable if your mom is wary about social media, as you're very young. However, you can introduce the parental features of certain apps (such as TikTok and even Pinterest). Explain your intentions with those apps as well, as she may want to know them.

Well, try to prove to them that you're mature enough for a social media account. Show them some ways they can keep you protected.

Explain to your parents that you believe you're old enough and mature enough. Maybe emphasize how you may feel left out because you are restricted from social media.