Q&A for How to Deal With Dumb People

People with mental disabilities are going through a lot more internally than it appears. Their lives can be so difficult and they constantly struggle to be happy every day. Try to understand this and be grateful that your life isn't normally like this. Just ignore them in a peaceful manner or do something kind for them. They need kindness since most people don't understand their internal suffering.

If you perceive yourself as being smarter than everyone around you (and it sounds like you do), that is why people think you're rude. Be nice and respectful to everyone, even if you think they are "dumb" and no one will accuse you of being rude. Even if you are smarter than a lot of other people, that doesn't make you a better or more valuable person.

If he thinks you're stupid, your relationship won't progress because he doesn't respect you.

Chances are, you are not. Nobody dumb considers themselves to be dumb. Just try to gain knowledge every day, and in any way you can. It will really boost your self confidence.

Seeing things from someone else's point of view can always help. Maybe he is very good at some things, and not so good at others, but everyone has talents. And he was smart enough to get you, right?

Don't try to change someone else's views. Chances are he/she will remain stubborn and only become more judgmental toward you. Ignore the person and avoid any conversations that may annoy you, or you may be nice to him/her and hope for improvement.

Talk less. Most of the times, those who opine a lot or interrupt with their thoughts seem less wise. If you control your words, you can use the quiet time to think more.

Use patience and tell them things straight. They will eventually respect your level of knowledge. Just remember, none of us know everything, and you're never too old to learn something new. Respect what your folks do know; maybe there's something they can teach you.

If your mother cannot accept sound scientific proof (be sure to provide her with the sources you have cited in your argument), you just have let it go. If it comes up again, just try to stay quiet and accept that you are correct.

Always tell yourself that they are the problem, not you. Continue to love and respect yourself. If they are competitive, and have the bigger, better whatever, again, affirm your own accomplishments/talents. The trick to contentment is not to worry about what the other guy has.

Avoid arguments. When they're bragging about themselves, just say, "That's nice," and try to change the subject. If it's a close friend, you could try talking to them about their behavior, but otherwise, just limit your interactions with them.

Try imagining what life would be like if they were no longer there. It might help you appreciate their better qualities and focus on those instead of what you perceive as their "dumbness". If your sibling is younger than you, help them as much as possible. Patience is your friend.

It depends on whether he is harming you or other people. Make sure to tell an adult, teacher, staff, etc.

No! Violence is never the right way to deal with someone who is merely being dumb.

Let them be. Avoid voicing your opinions when situations are unimportant. Voice only when it makes a difference.

Stop arguing with her and responding to her. Don't acknowledge her at all and she will get bored of it eventually.

Just be professional and don't let your emotions get to you. It is not your fault after all. Be courteous just because you have to and stay positive. Understand that everybody gets negative sometimes.

This is a wonderful way of acting. However, don't call yourself an idiot. Making errors doesn't make anyone an idiot. It's human. What counts is if you are thoughtful as you are and focus on growing with time.

You can't change how other people act. The only thing you can control is yourself. Just do your work and try not to worry about the others.

You will have to accept him as he is, we all have our talents and limitations.

Try to find a job with an intelligent boss. It's one of the most important things you can do for your sanity and job satisfaction.

Many people have misconceptions about feminism that appear to be firm in this person. Unless you have to talk with this person about feminism regularly, try not to engage in such conversations (or any at all) and remember why you have your opinions about feminism. Afterwards, move on and do something that will be a more effective use of your time.

Such a reply sends the message you don't care much about this line of conversation. Not offering your own topic sends the message you, in addition, don't like this person, especially if 'okay' is literally all you say in response. Yes, it is quite rude. Try replying with a full sentence, offer some small talk topics in return, and keep conversations short.

Accept that there are people who will not understand you, and there's very likely nothing you can do about that. Instead of worrying about this, seek out and appreciate the people who do understand you. When you have to deal with someone who doesn't understand you, just be polite and try to get along with them as best you can.

Confront her about this. Ask her why she's making up lies about you. Stay calm during the conversation and tell her you just want to know what's going on, because you thought the two of you were good friends, but she seems to be trying to hurt you on purpose. If she is not apologetic and makes no attempt to change, find better friends.

Find something to jokingly tease him with, which may lighten the mood for you both.

If your friends are siding with her, you might want to take their opinions into consideration and think about your part in the argument. If you value this friendship, apologize for what you did (if anything) to make your friend upset.

Educate yourself. Read about personality disorders, maybe narcissistic personality disorders. See if he fits the bill and understand why he acts that way and how to manage his behavior.

You have two choices. Walk away or kill them with kindess. It's easier to be nice than mean. And if you're nice to them, they'll love you and do you favors.

No one should ever get angry. Control your emotions and find better outlets than to shout or get angry. So, no, you're not wrong: not getting angry is the right thing to do.