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What's the best way to tell a girl how I feel?

Connell Barrett
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Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."

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Choose a nice setting, like a park or a good restaurant, to make the moment more special. Doing it in person and making it romantic will make it memorable for both of you and help put her in a great frame of mind to receive the news.

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Can I ask a girl to be my girlfriend over text?

Connell Barrett
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Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."

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It's better to do it in person so you can make the moment special. You'll both have a special memory if you do it in person, but you won't get that if you do it over text.

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How would you ask a girl if you are scared to?

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If you're too nervous to ask her in person, try writing her a note asking her to be your girlfriend. You can give her the note and tell her to open it when you're not around if you'd like.

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When is it appropriate to ask a girl to be your girlfriend? Do you have to be romaticly involved or if youre just dating?

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Once you've established some sort of friendship and are getting to know each other better, you can ask her to be your girlfriend whenever you'd like. Try to figure out how she feels first to be more sure of how she'll respond.

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What if she never wants to be your girlfriend?!

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You can't force someone to be your girlfriend--if she doesn't want to, you'll have to accept this and respect her feelings. Try to spend some time apart from her so you can process your feelings and start to move on.

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How to invite a girlfriend for a coffee

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Ask her casually in person by saying something like, "I'm going to grab coffee tomorrow if you want to come with me," or invite her through text if you're nervous about asking in person.

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