Q&A for How to Get a Girl to Kiss You if You Are a Girl

Just ask her directly if she has feelings for you. It sounds like she does, but maybe she's still working things out with her sexuality, or she's not sure if she's ready for a relationship. I suggest asking if you can talk to her somewhere private and if she does reciprocate your feelings, then kiss her.

Hold her waist. Put your hands on either side of her face. Hold the sides of her hips. Hold her hands. If it's more heated and you have some privacy you could pick her up and put her on a counter or something similar so you're closer in height.

Brush your teeth with a minty toothpaste and/or rinse with mouthwash. You could also eat mints or chew gum.

Either kiss her back or pull away.

Just try not to be nervous because if she really is your friend then she will care and like you no matter what.

It depends on how close you are. If you two stay very close and hold hands sometimes, then that's a good sign. If you make her smile a lot and laugh, that's also a good sign. Hang out with her more often and if she starts getting closer, then you can ask her how she feels about you.

When you want to kiss her, give her a friendly kiss on the head first. If she reacts positively, get closer and maybe tease her a bit by getting closer to her lips. Make sure you are in a private area so if she feels comfortable and secure, you can try kissing her.

If you know that she won't mind this, then you could but be mindful of your other sleepover friends, as this might weird them out. If you wouldn't do it with a potential boyfriend, why would you do it with a potential girlfriend? It's no different, so be considerate of others who might find this taking it all too far.

Then give up -- if she's not feeling it, then she's made it clear how she feels and you should desist.

If she says she is straight, than you should accept that without question (regardless of whether it's true or not). Ask her how she feels about you, why she is your friend, etc. It's normal for friends to cuddle. If she says she is friends with you because of your personality, then be her friend. If it's too hard to only stay friends, then it may be time to abandon the friendship. If she only likes you for your body (regardless of her sexuality), then she is not a friend (or girlfriend) worth having.

If you mean you literally want to give her something, like a gift, then doing this is fine. If you mean you want to ask her to close her eyes and then kiss her, don't do that. She cannot consent to the kiss if she doesn't know it's coming. It's best to ask her if it's okay first.

It depends. For example try talking about lesbians, and if she is freaked out, or doesn't like it, consider it as unlikely to be successful.

Not really. You might be bi or you might be curious. You're a lesbian if you're only attracted to girls. If you're attracted to both boys and girls, you would be bisexual. If you kiss a girl, but are still attracted to boys, then you are straight.

She's playing you and will most likely break your heart. Stop any kind of sexual interaction with her until she breaks up with her boyfriend.

Say yes! That is a golden opportunity. You're lucky to have one. You can ask her if you want to make plans, like, "Do you want to go somewhere special?"

Some people just don't want to do it. It doesn't matter if it's a same sex or opposite sex relationship. Give her some time, she just may not be ready for that yet, so respect her boundaries.

If a girl says she doesn't like you, believe her. You may be misreading her signs, and if she does in fact like you, she will let you know.

Read the article closely again and see if that doesn't help you. However, since she probably isn't going to be advertising the fact she'd like to kiss you anytime soon, then either she is shy or she isn't at all interested, so some talking is a good start.

You can never know if a person is gay or not unless they tell you so, no matter how well you think you know them. Even if your friend is gay, then she hasn't come to terms with it or isn't ready to "come out" yet. Pushing her to label herself will only make her feel more pressured and anxious. Try to give her space and remind her that you will accept her for whoever she is, gay, straight, bi, pan, anything. Remember, she knows herself more than you do. Respect her feelings.

Then start from the beginning, and say that you're sorry. If they are a true friend, they will forgive you.

It could. It's generally not advisable to just kiss a friend out of the blue. If you have feelings for her, it's best talk about it and see how she feels. If you just want to try kissing for fun, it's also best to ask her if she would be willing.

She might just be shy, so if you're comfortable with the idea of kissing her, then you could be the one to initiate.

You will just have to live with that. There's nothing you can do to change her mind. Find someone else to focus on romantically.

There is a chance that she may be interested in you. Of course, the easiest way to find out is to mention LGBT issues and see how she reacts, or even better, ask her directly if she likes you.

Then simply tell her you're not ready. You should not feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do.

Ask her about her feelings. If she doesn't want to kiss you, not a lot can be done.

Don't do anything. You don't want to cause a big mess if her girlfriend finds out. If you do kiss her and her girlfriend finds out, it will likely cause problems for her relationship. In turn, she'll probably not have the best feelings toward you.

You most likely can't change her sexuality, but you can give it a try. Talk to her briefly about lesbians or LGBT, and examine her reactions. If she freaks out, you should back off and find other girls. If she seems interested or is respectful, you can try to start flirting or make the move.

If you are close, just casually ask her if she supports gay marriage or LGBT rights. From there, you can gauge whether it's okay to ask more questions. If she doesn't support LGBT rights, it may be best to leave it alone.

Probably. Just make sure they get the signal that you're interested in them.