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    What is the best gift I can give my girlfriend on her birthday?
    Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT
    Licensed Relationship Therapist
    Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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    Your girlfriend will appreciate a gift that is thoughtful and intentional. You can give a material thing to her or do some fun activities together that she likes.
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    What surprises can I give my girlfriend on her birthday?
    Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT
    Licensed Relationship Therapist
    Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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    You can write a love letter or a letter explaining how you feel about your girlfriend and leave it somewhere in her house where she can find it.
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    What can I do to have fun on my girlfriend's birthday if we can't go anywhere?
    Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT
    Licensed Relationship Therapist
    Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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    You can make your living room cozy and watch movies or something interesting together. Or you can camp in your backyard to have fun.
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    How can I make my girlfriend's birthday memorable?
    Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT
    Licensed Relationship Therapist
    Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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    You can give your girlfriend a surprise vacation or an Airbnb to make her birthday memorable.
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    Can I get a list of gift ideas for her?
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    Flowers, chocolate, wine, jewelry, underwear, shoes, movie tickets, a car, a city trip, a spa treatment, a massage, a haircut, a beauty retreat, dinner at a nice restaurant, an item she collects, a decorative item, candles, bath soap, bath salts, beauty products, a trip to the beach, a surprise birthday party, a book, a beautiful picture, or even simple things, like her favorite treat.
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    Is itproper to kiss her during her birthday?
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    If she is your girlfriend, of course. If you haven't gotten to that point, maybe it isn't.
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    What happens if your plan doesn't go well?
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    Try to make a new plan on the fly. You never want to give up when it comes to your girlfriend's birthday.
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    How do I impress her with a conversation?
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    Impress her with your knowledge. It doesn't hurt to show your intelligent or serious side.
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    What if she doesn't know what she wants on her birthday?
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    Just do your best to get her something you think she wants.
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    How do I wish her a happy birthday?
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    Show off your creative side by decorating a poster board any way you'd like.
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    Is it wrong that my boyfriend didn't buy me a gift for my birthday, and let me pay a part of our dinner?
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    If your boyfriend isn't in the position to pay, it isn't wrong. If he can pay, yes, it is pretty messed up. Don't read too much into it. If it occurs again, bring it up.
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    Should I take her out on her exact birthday?
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    If you do it the day before she will feel as though you couldn't wait to make her feel special, which makes it twice as special. If she has plans with her family or with her friends, it is okay, or maybe you should take her earlier in the day or later that night.
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    What is the best gift to give?
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    Honesty and vulnerability are a good gift. Write a song or poem.
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    How many presents should I get her?
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    You should get her at least one, but how many is up to you!
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    Is taking her out a gift?
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    It could be, if it's something rare and unique you treat her to.
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    What do I do if we are angry at each other and her birthday is next week?
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    If you really care for her, try to make up before her birthday. Apologize for your part in the argument and try to talk it out. In the long run, it's better to put aside your difficulties and give your girlfriend a great birthday instead of hanging on to resentment.
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    How can I surprise her on her birthday if she is angry with me?
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    Try some chocolates, roses, and a card. If you want to be more creative, make her breakfast or write a poem for her. Nothing wrong with getting in touch with your gentle side.
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    What would be the best gift to give in a long distance relationship?
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    The BEST gift would probably be a surprise visit. If you showed up at her house with some flowers to show her how much you care about her, that would be perfect. However, that's not feasible with everyone. You could also give her a gift that makes her feel closer to you, like an album of photos of the two of you.
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    My birthday is next week, and I'm afraid he's going to forget. What should I do?
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    Try to give him hints that your birthday is coming up, or get one of your friends to mention it to him.
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    Should I wish her at 12 o'clock at night?
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    Depends on whether she is up at that time. If she's not, then don't wake her up. If she is, you can, but it isn't necessary; most people would wait until the morning or when they see the person.
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    What if my girlfriend already has everything she needs?
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    Give her something handmade. If you hand-make something that means you put a lot of time into it, this is more valuable that just buying her a simple present.
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    What unforgettable gift can I give to her for her birthday?
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    Something that she can keep forever. Something like a bracelet or a necklace (i.e. not food or flowers).
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    What if I found out that my boyfriend isn't planning anything for my birthday?
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    It isn't unusual for a guy to forget your birthday. Just throw little hints the day prior to your birthday. And try not to get mad at him about missing it, depending on how long you two have been together.
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    I haven't prepared, and my girlfriend's birthday is soon. What can I get her?
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    If you're in a time crunch, chocolate and her favorite flowers are a pretty safe and easy bet. Get a card and write something heartfelt inside.
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    What's a good gift for my 77-year-old girlfriend?
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    Flowers, clothes, chocolates, wine are all safe choices. If you know her well, get her something connected to her interests.
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    What should I give my best friend as a birthday gift?
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    You should find out what their favorite things are, and then get a present based on that. You can incorporate their favorite colors and interests, and make an unforgettable birthday gift.
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    Could I kiss my ex on her upcoming birthday?
    Community Answer
    If you both feel comfortable with it, sure. Make sure she doesn't mind before you do it, though.
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    What if I'm 12 and I can't take her out or any of that stuff?
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    Just hang out together, have a nice talk and tell her what you appreciate about her. You could even bring up the fact that you wanted to take her out, but couldn't.
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    Should I plan her birthday with her friends, or just her?
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    You could do both! You could plan a small get together with her friends, and then plan a romantic evening for the two of you.
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    Whats an unforgettable and long-lasting gift for my girlfriend?
    Top Answerer
    There's no one gift all girlfriends will like, but there are a million your girlfriend will like. I keep a list of names and things they mention they like throughout the year. You see, it's not the gift that counts, it's how well you paid attention to what your girlfriend likes. Every time you see her, she's giving you thousands of ideas of things she likes, so listen, look, take notes.
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