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How do you have a strong bond with your best friend?

Adam Dorsay, PsyD
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Dr. Adam Dorsay is a licensed psychologist in private practice in San Jose, CA, and the co-creator of Project Reciprocity, an international program at Facebook's Headquarters, and a consultant with Digital Ocean’s Safety Team. He specializes in assisting high-achieving adults with relationship issues, stress reduction, anxiety, and attaining more happiness in their lives. In 2016 he gave a well-watched TEDx talk about men and emotions. Dr. Dorsay has a M.A. in Counseling from Santa Clara University and received his doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2008.

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I'd recommend finding something to do together. If there's a hobby or passion that both of you care about and the both of you engage in it together, you'll bond over it. That's really the best way to make sure you and your friend always have something to do.

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Is it worth spending time with a friend who has been kind of rude lately?

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There aren't a lot of limited things out there. If you lose your health, it's possible to get it back. If you lose money, you can always make more. But you can't get your time back. If you don't feel like your relationship with this person hasn't been rewarding, then it's totally okay to call it quits.

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How can I make a good friendship?

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Put the other person’s needs ahead of your own, spend quality time together, don't be judgmental, and encourage each other.

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How do you maintain a good relationship?

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Put the other person’s needs ahead of your own, spend quality time together, and encourage each other.

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How can I keep my best friend forever?

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You may not have control over whether you keep your best friend forever. However, be a good friend, accept changes in life circumstances as part of your friendship, and make time for your friend.

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How can you make your friendship last longer?

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You may not have control over how long your friendship lasts. However, be a good friend, accept changes in life circumstances as part of your friendship, and make time for your friend.

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