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What do I do if a girl won't make eye contact with me?

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She could be nervous to look directly at you. You just have to give her time to be comfortable around you.

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What can I do if I am scared about making eye contact with a girl who is staring at me?

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Perhaps she is interested in you! Try to keep looking her way for a couple extra seconds to see if she glances away: if she does, she may like you. Chat her up! You may have some things in common. You may get a new friend out of it.

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There is a girl at my school who keeps giving me short glances. What should I do?

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She probably has a crush on you. See what she does and go from there.

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At the gym, there's a girl I have a major crush on. We do maintain eye contact, but neither of us smiles. What should I do? How do I know if she likes me?

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Start small. Next time you make eye contact, smile. If she smiles back, great. Next time you walk by her, say "hi." If she seems receptive, start a real conversation. Talk to her about whatever comes to mind - the weather, exercise technique, local sports or news, anything is great. If she engages you in a conversation, feel free to ask for her number. It's okay if it takes you a couple of conversations to work up to this.

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What should I do if a girl makes eye contact with me?

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Continue making eye contact with her and smile gently. Try to stay confident. She might decide she wants to come over and talk to you.

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There's this girl in school I usually sit next to in class. She says hello and likes talking to me. I have a crush on her. What do I do?

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Girls don't like it when guys play games, so just tell her how you feel about her. Tell her what you think about her clothes, her hair, and her personality. Ask questions, too, about how her life is going, and if she tells you something personal, ask her about it again the next day, just to show you care.

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She avoids me and looks nervous, but sometimes when she is near me she acts happy and her voice goes up. Is she into me or not?

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She might look nervous because she likes you. If her voice goes up and she acts happy when she's near you, this is another sign that she likes you (unless there's someone else around at these times that she's really happy to see).

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How do I make eye contact with a girl who's wearing sunglasses?

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There's not really anything you can do short of staring at her until you think she's looking at you, but that might come off as very creepy.

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How do I get her attention to make eye contact?

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Try saying her name. She more than likely look up, and you can make eye contact that way.

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I'm trying to look at a girl until she breaks eye contact. I think it's considered staring. How do I do that without freaking her out?

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Try lots of glances and smiles instead of uninterrupted staring.

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There's a beautiful girl at church who makes a little bit of eye-contact, but when I look directly at her she doesn't look back. I want to get her number. How do I do it?

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She may be shy. Be confident, look at her and smile. Girls love it when you ask about them. Find out about her interests and talk to her about them. After you've chatted for a little bit, ask if you could have her number so you can continue to get to know each other.

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How do I flirt with a girl?

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It's hard to tell you how to flirt with a girl without knowing her personality. You should try to get to know your crush, so you know what she'll like. In general, complimenting her is often a good bet. Tell her she looks nice and she's smart. You can leave sweet notes in her locker and offer to buy her lunch or carry her books. Simple gestures can go a long way.

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How will I know if a girl likes me?

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If she does, you can be very sure that you will notice. If you're in doubt, she probably doesn't like you - yet. Keep talking to her, get to know her, let her get to know you, be kind, be friends, listen more than you talk.

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How do I make eye contact with a blind girl?

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I'm afraid it's impossible. Maybe you could try to connect with her on a deeper level through words.

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At first whenever I was near her she was making good eye contact with me she and smiling. But now she is not making eye contact with me and she acts nervous. Why?

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Either she stopped making eye contact with you because she likes you and she's nervous you'll find out, or because she knows you like her and she doesn't want to give you the wrong idea. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way.

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Can I talk to someone if they make eye contact with me?

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Sure. Start by smiling and saying "hi." If they say "hi" back, go ahead and engage in conversation.

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At school, in all my periods, why does this cute boy look at me?

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He might like you. You could ask him out or try talking to him if you like him, because he might be interested too.

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There is a girl in school whom I like but I stare at her all the time and now she ignores me. What should I do now?

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No one likes to be stared at. It's creepy and you've creeped her out. Try small talk instead.

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A girl in my company keeps looking at me, what's the next step?

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Just walk up to her and say hi and introduce yourself. Be polite, be yourself and see where it leads from there.

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If a girl gives me a sign of interest, like looking at me, how do I start a conversation?

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Say "Hi, how are you?" If she's a stranger, introduce yourself and ask for her name. Pay attention to her body language and how she responds to you to make sure she really wants to talk to you. Not every girl who makes eye contact will be interested in you.

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A girl in my college stares at me, but when I look back she kind of ignores me. Can you tell me why?

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There are a lot of potential reasons. Maybe she likes you. Maybe she's just staring off in the distance and doesn't even realize she's looking at you. Maybe you look like someone she knows. If you like her, approach her and strike up a conversation. If she seems to have no interest in talking to you, she probably didn't mean to stare at you.

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How do I make eye contact with a girl who has crossed eyes?

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Try maintaining eye contact with the eye that's looking directly at you.

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How do I know if I can propose to someone if she's calling me a best friend?

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You should be many months--years, even--into a romantic relationship with someone before considering proposal. However, if she's calling you her best friend, that's a pretty clear indication that she doesn't feel romantically about you.

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