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    How can I keep a friend forever?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
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    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
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    There is no specific formula. Some friends drift apart as they get older and develop new and separate interests. Try to keep up with your friend's work, family, hobbies, etc. Stay connected on social media, especially if you live far apart. Don't let marriage, babies, or relocation put an abrupt end to the friendship.
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    How do I become friends with girls?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Licensed Social Worker
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
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    Start with the basics: talk with them, compliment them, and exchange interests. Be sure to balance talking and listening.
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    How can I propose a girl to be my girlfriend?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Licensed Social Worker
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
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    If you have interests beyond friendship, you have to begin to make that clear. Take a risk and say you are starting to like them as more than a friend. You can never underestimate good communication!
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    How do you turn a new friend into a best friend?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Licensed Social Worker
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
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    Building a great friendship takes time and effort. Best friendships take some time, so don't expect it right away. It is based on trust and familiarity. Start by confiding and listening. Highlight your shared interests or your complementary interests. Don't be jealous of her other friends; be inclusive.
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