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QuestionThere is a boy in my class who is a good friend, but he wants to be more than that. What should I do?LittleFire99Community AnswerDo what feels right to you. If you're not bi or gay, just tell him. If you are, then think about how you feel for him. If you don't like him romantically, you can just tell him. If you aren't sure, just tell him that you need to think about it. You don't need to rush figuring it out. Take your time.
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QuestionHow am I sure that a guy is gay?Community AnswerYou can't always tell that a guy is gay just by the way he acts. If you want to attempt to figure out without asking, try seeing if he romanticizes men or flirts with them. If you don't see things like this happen, find a way to ask him. Just don't come off as rude.
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QuestionHow do I know how big he is?Community AnswerHis size doesn't matter. Small guys can be just as great. If you want to know, though, try asking.
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QuestionWhat's the difference between gay men and bisexual men?Mystical_TaleCommunity AnswerGay men are men who only like men. Bisexual men are men who like both men and women.
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QuestionI know a man who is married, but I feel he is interested in me. How do I know for sure?Community AnswerI know it's flattering and exciting, but it's not a good idea to get involved with a married man. If he is truly interested in you and no longer interested in his wife, he'll get a divorced. Keep your relationship strictly platonic, and explore other dating options.
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QuestionHow can I seduce my gay friend?Community AnswerAsk him if he'd like to come to your house (or apartment) to play cards or a board game to pass the time some day (or night!). Maybe you both could play a game on your computer, if you have such software. You could watch a DVD, video or other activity instead of a game too. Once he's in your own home environment, you'll both feel more comfortable and you can let the seduction begin. You can read How to Seduce Your Friend for ideas on the next steps to take.
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QuestionDo gay men have any certain poses or come-on gestures?Community AnswerNot really. Every person is different. Some people are over the top, and some people are chill.
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QuestionHow can I attract a guy through chat?Community AnswerMaybe talk to him about something that would turn you on, but if it's your first move, then don't get too crazy with what you want to say. Start slowly and follow his reactions.
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QuestionHow can I seduce my straight friend?Community AnswerYou can't. If you're gay and he's straight, then it's not going to work. If you're gay and he's "curious" then there may be a possibility for some "experimentation," but don't expect anything more. Just accept that he's your straight friend and let it stay that way.
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QuestionWhat if I don't know if I am gay, even though pornographic photos of men turn me on?Community AnswerThis could be sexual experimentation, or you could be attracted to men. Consider the possibility of you being bisexual. However, it is also normal to be attracted to sexual images without being attracted to that kind of sexual relationship.
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QuestionI am interested in this guy. I invited him to lunch and we both had a great time. He has accepted my gifts. Is he interested in me?Community AnswerThe best way to find out is to tell him how you feel. If he doesn't like you, you will know.
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QuestionHow do I turn a straight boy gay?Community AnswerYou can't. You have to let him choose what he wants to be.
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QuestionWhat if I'm an amputee?Community AnswerYou can use the same methods. Some people might be wary of dating an amputee but you'll have no trouble finding plenty of people who would love to go out with you.
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QuestionA young man mentioned that I am very handsome. (I think he is gorgeous.) Does that mean he's interested?Community AnswerMaking an observation about someone's attractiveness can be a sign, but isn't always. My mom tells me I'm a good-looking young man all the time, for example. Other signs, like whether this young man seems to enjoy your company and seek out conversation with you, should be taken into account.
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QuestionHow do I approach a guy when I'm not sure he's gay?Community AnswerTry obsering him more and watching for signs. If you still are not sure you can ask. Be very polite and ask him straight up. To be safe, consider having a good friend with you, just in case the guy is homophobic; he will be more likely to back off in that case, than attack you verbally or physically.
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QuestionHow do I tell if I'm gay or not?Neutral_boyCommunity AnswerIt's simple, sit in a nice calm place think about relationships and marriages. If the first image in your head is a handsome boy you may be homosexual.
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QuestionI went down on my friend when he was drunk, but he doesn't remember. Is this possible?Community AnswerYes, this is possible. However, you should avoid having sex with someone for the first time when they're drunk as they're not capable of giving reliable consent.
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QuestionIf I prefer to be the feminine one only, how do I let the guy know it?Community AnswerFlirt in a "feminine" way. Act a little shy. If you're dancing, shake your butt a lot to draw a guy's attention there. Maybe you can even add a little eyeliner for a "pretty boy" look. Tell some dirty jokes that suggest what you're thinking about.
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QuestionA guy keeps saying he loves me and keeps wanting to spend time with me. I don't know if he likes me like that, though. How can I be sure?Katie SelnerCommunity AnswerIf a guy is saying he loves you, pay attention to his manner. Does he say it flippantly or does it seem important? Also, be careful! If this is a guy you don't know well take it slow and keep your distance. You don't know who he is or what he's capable of. And in my experience, when a guy says he likes or loves you he is usually just obsessed and it will fade over time.
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QuestionWhat should I do if this guy buys me coffee every morning?Community AnswerWell it sounds like he's definitely interested. Asking him to clarify wouldn't be a bad idea, but if you don't want to address him like that, you could try just waving him over and introducing yourself.
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QuestionHow can I seduce a straight guy if I do not admit that I'm gay?Dorothy Joan BonannoCommunity AnswerFlirt with this guy and send him hints that you're into him. He'll get it eventually. But if he is straight he may not be willing to be seduced, and you must accept that.
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QuestionDo you have any recommendations on where to meet a mature gay men aged 50 and over?Community AnswerYou could try putting an ad on Craigslist, asking for replies from men ranging in ages from 40 to 70. Craigslist works for all ages.
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QuestionHow do I know if a gay man has male genitalia?Community AnswerYou ask! Do NOT be afraid to ask, particularly if you anticipate romantic involvement.
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QuestionHow do I seduce my straight friend or make him interested in me and have more time with me?Community AnswerYou cannot seduce a straight person into a homosexual relationship. You can't change who he is. If you want to spend more time with him as a friend, tell him that! Just say something like, "I really have fun around you, do you think we could hang out more?"
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QuestionHow do I find other gay people when I'm gay?Community AnswerOnline dating sites or apps are good places to be open about your sexuality. Just always be careful about the information you give out in an online forum.
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QuestionIs it possible to be a straight male who occasionally likes to bottom?Community AnswerYes, it's not as strange as it might seem. Many straight guys like to be penetrated by a woman using a sex toy. (And plenty of straight guys occasionally have sex with men as well.)
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QuestionIs it okay to want to sleep with my wife's gay best friend?Community AnswerThere's nothing wrong with wanting to do that, but unless you and your wife have an open marriage or some other sort of polyamorous arrangement, you should not actually do it.
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QuestionI think I want to try to orally please another man. It's a fantasy I imagine often. How do I try to test this?Community AnswerUse Grindr or another gay app. By doing this, you can pick up men without having to ever seem them again if you want.
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QuestionI'm a bi/married guy and I really like this other married guy. I just want to be friends, but I'm nervous too. What should I do?Community AnswerIt's absolutely okay to try to build a friendship with another man. Just approach him like you would anyone else. Say hi. Talk about things you might have in common. If it would make you feel more comfortable, introduce yourself with your spouse, then both of you can have a new friend.
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QuestionWhat if I don't know how to dance and I don't like disco or partying?Community AnswerThere are plenty of other places besides the club or bar scene where you can meet guys. Many people meet their partners through friends, work, or through other hobbies. For example, if you were interested in bowling, you might meet someone by joining a bowling league.
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