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    How shouldn't you respond when a guy asks you out?
    Mark Rosenfeld
    Dating & Relationship Coach
    Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
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    Don't play hard-to-get—there's no reason to. The guy is taking a risk and making himself vulnerable by asking the question, so you want to reward that.
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    How do you respond to a text asking you out?
    Mark Rosenfeld
    Dating & Relationship Coach
    Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
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    Don't overcomplicate it! Something like "I'd love to!" or "That sounds great!" works well. You could also reply, "I suppose we can make that happen" with a winky face included at the end.
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    What if the question was a joke? What would you do then?
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    It depends on the context, but I would laugh and treat it like a joke rather than a serious proposal. That seems like a cruel joke so maybe assess whether this person is really a friend.
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    Does it work the same for a middle school teen
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    Yes, all of these same suggestions apply for a middle school teens. Understand that relationships in middle school tend not to be as long lasting, so try not to be as worried over proposals at a younger age.
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    A guy asked me out by handing me a note, I don't know if I want to go out with him or not and its already been a couple of days since I recived the note.What do I do??
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    You have to make up your mind and tell him in a straightforward fashion. Decide if you want to respond with another note or in person. It could be considered rude to leave him in limbo if his note was respectful. Be honest with your feelings so both of you know where your relationship stands.
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    What if all of your friends hate him but you like him
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    You have to be careful and try to look at the situation objectively. Listen to your friends and figure out for what specific reasons they hate him. Then decide if those specific reasons matter to you. Friends are often right, but you have to decide for yourself what's best.
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    Someone asked me out and they just broke up with one of my close friends!!!what should I do?
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    Be wary of this situation. You have to consider whether you want to risk ruining a relationship with a close friend just for a relationship. Remember that friends tend to last much longer than relationships.
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    What should I do because he asked me to a dance? Is it the same thing?
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    You should treat it the same way as if he asked you to a movie or to dinner. In most cases, a dance is another form of a date and should be treated as such.
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    What if a guy asked you out and his ex is your friend
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    It all depends on the context, but you have to evaluate your priorities. Would saying yes jeopardize your friendship with his ex/your friend? Are you ready to risk a friendship for a relationship? Answer these questions before saying yes to such a proposal.
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    How long would it take for my friend serenity to say yes to dating when I asked her tout yesterday
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    Every person takes their own time to decide when to say yes. If you haven't heard anything back soon, then I would ask her again to know for sure.
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    How can I answer a boy who asked me out with no
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    Be honest, forceful, and polite. Say 'no,' but in a way that doesn't let him down so harshly. For example, you might say 'I don't feel the same about you romantically, but I highly value our friendship."
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    What if he is going to dump his current girlfriend for you
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    I would avoid this person at all costs if he was ending a relationship just to be with you. This is a sign of immaturity and shows that this person doesn't value commitment.
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    How do I answer when a guy says ILove You
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    I you love him back, then say 'I love you too!' If you don't, say you're not ready to discuss love and would like to take things more slowly.
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    what do you do if a girl has told her parents that you like her
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    I would proceed as normal and do your best to be on her parent's good side. It is often as an attractive quality for partners to try and impress the other's parents.
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    How to ask him a question about marriage
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    Ideally, questions about marriage should come much later after his initial proposal. Allow time for the relationship to ease in before you start to press his feelings about marriage. Asking him too soon may be uncomfortable for him to consider.
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