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If we stare each other for a second and she looks away after awhile and rolls her eyes back does she not like me?

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It's hard to tell just from a look. It could mean she doesn't like you, or she could be acting like that because she likes you. Try talking to her and see what kind of impression you get!

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I like a girl she look at me when I study and I look at her then I move my eyes on other side,when look again she is looking at me.

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If you notice her looking at you a lot, she might like you too! The only way to know for sure is to talk to her.

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Talking to her but she frown her face.

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That might be a sign she's not interested, but she might just not know you well enough. Try making conversation if she's open to it, but otherwise, give her a little space.

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What I do if the girl don't likes me.?

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It's really hard when someone you like doesn't like you back, but it's best to give her space if that's the case. Spend time with your other friends, and give yourself a little time to feel sad, then try your best to move on!

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How do I compliment if they're ugly? -.-

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If you like her, there's obviously something that you're attracted to. Compliment her on whatever you like - that way, it will be sincere and thoughtful. If you can't find anything to compliment her on, you might reconsider whether you really like her as much as you thought.

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What if she ix your friend already and you propose and she doesn't give you an answer

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Let her think about what you said. If she never mentions it again, she might not be interested, but it's okay to ask her what she thought the next time you get a chance. Remember to be respectful if she says no.

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If she is avoiding talking to you, what do you do?

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Well, if she's going out of her way to avoid you, she might not be interested. If that's the case, you may want to give her a little space and try to find someone else to like!

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What are the words to use to talk to a girl for the first time

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There aren't any magic words - the important thing is that you talk to her at all, and be yourself! However, there are some suggestions in the article for how to strike up a conversation.

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She's not a school mate but a fellow church member

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Try talking to her about the sermon for that week, or about any outreach programs she's involved in.

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How can I draw a girl's attention?

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Try making eye contact with her and smiling when you walk past her. That will show her that you noticed her.

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This is dumb but what if she issnt the one?

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That's okay! If you work up the courage to talk to her and things don't work out, you should still be proud that you were brave and confident enough to start a conversation with someone you liked. That might even make it easier next time you find a girl you like!

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I sees a girl everyday in my school bus.i never talked to her.she also sees me everyday but I am a great introvert in the bus, how should I start talking with her?what topic should I use?

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One day, ask her if you can sit with her. Then, ask her questions like, "What kind of music do you like?" or "What's your favorite movie right now?" Use her answers to help you decide what to say next!

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When you don't know what to say, what should you do

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Look for an opportunity to talk to her about whatever is going on around you, like someone being silly in class, really pretty weather, or a song that's playing.

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There's a girl I like and she like me to,but am afraid of fail,I moved to another school yet everyday am thinking of her.I don't want to lose her because of studying .please help me out.

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Try calling her, texting her, or writing her a letter. That way, you can stay in touch even if you don't go to school together anymore.

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What if she's almost always with one of her friends or doing something else?

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Either wait for a time when you find her on her own, or get to know her friends and hang out with them all as a group!

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I know a girl that I like and she knows me but I cant find the time to be with her and become more of her friend and I only have her in one class

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Be patient and look for chances to interact with her before or after school. Also, keep in mind that you might have her in more classes next term!

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