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My dad is verbally abusive and my mom doesn't say anything about it. I have no support system. No friends or boyfriend. I am alone.

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Consider talking to your mom about it or contact a help line to get help right away.

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I have tried these methods. I even rehearse what to say, but it doesn't work. What do I do?

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Do not be afraid of anything. There is no need to be rehearsed. Just follow your true feelings and express them.

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Why do I always try to fix my relationship with my mom even though she hurts me emotionally and mentally?

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Because she is your mom. She's a part of your family, and you love her. So that is why you are trying to fix the relationship, even if she makes you feel stressful.

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Is it normal to hate your mom if she's abusive?

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That might be a normal reaction. Moms should be loved, however, and there is probably a reason she's being abusive. So, once you and your mom are all calmed down, go find her and try to have a conversation. If she is being a bit sensitive and upset, do not hide or run away. Calm her down by hugging her. Most moms love hugs. If this seems too difficult, maybe you could get an older sibling or another adult involved in the conversation.

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What if your mom is just angry and taking her anger out on you?

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Get away from her until she calms down. Then have a conversation with her. Tell her how her behavior is making you feel. If she gets upset, calm her down with a hug. If that doesn't work, you should probably keep your distance whenever she's upset or seek help from an adult or an older sibling.

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My parents have been yelling at me and saying bad things when I play video games. What should I do?

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They might be worried about you, so the best thing is first to listen to them and if you still don't know the exact reason your parents get mad when you play video games, ask them about it when you and they are calm.

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