Are My Crush and I a Match?

Take this quiz to find out!

If you have a crush or are dating someone new, you might be wondering whether the two of you are a match. You’re in the right place!

Just answer these questions, and we’ll put the information through our top-secret love tester and tell you how compatible you are. Hit that “Start Quiz” button to get started! 💘👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨💐

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Questions Overview

1. What’s the first letter of their name?
  1. A - G
  2. H - N
  3. O - T
  4. U - Z
2. What’s one word you would use to describe your connection?
  1. Romantic
  2. Exciting
  3. Silly
  4. Cute
3. What month were you born in? (Trust us, it matters!)
  1. January, February, or March
  2. April, May, or June
  3. July, August, or September
  4. October, November, or December
4. What’s one thing you love about them?
  1. Their empathy! They always get how I’m feeling.
  2. Their passion. They’re so intense and romantic!
  3. Their sense of humor! They totally crack me up.
  4. Their intelligence. I love our deep conversations!
5. What’s one thing you don’t have in common?
  1. I can’t think of anything! We’re pretty in sync.
  2. Ambition. We have different goals for school/career paths.
  3. Sensitivity. One of us is a little more emotional than the other.
  4. Values. We kinda have different ideas about what’s important.
6. What word would you use to describe your conversations?
  1. Intense
  2. Flirty
  3. Fun
  4. Honestly, I haven’t worked up the nerve to talk to them 😬
7. Do the two of you like the same books, TV shows, and movies?
  1. Yes, 100%! We have the same taste in almost everything.
  2. Mostly. We like a lot of the same things but have a few differences.
  3. Not really! We have our own tastes, but we overlap in some places.
  4. Not at all. We pretty much have polar opposite tastes!
8. How would you describe the feeling you get when you’re together?
  1. It’s like the whole world disappears and it’s just the two of us.
  2. It’s fun and a little nerve-wracking. I get a ton of butterflies!
  3. It’s comfortable and sweet. I feel so safe when I’m with them.
  4. It’s like a non-stop adventure. Every moment is exciting!
9. What do you think is their favorite thing about you?
  1. My intensity! Our connection is magnetic and passionate.
  2. My heart. I’m super loving and affectionate to them!
  3. My jokes. I’m always making them laugh!
  4. My smile! I always catch them staring.
10. Picture your life in 5 years. Can you see them in it?
  1. Yes, completely! I see us deeply in love and living together.
  2. I think so! I can picture us together, or at least still friends.
  3. I’m not sure. I want us to last that long, but who knows!
  4. Not really. We have pretty different goals for our futures.
11. How often do they reach out to you during the day?
  1. We’re constantly texting or talking on the phone! It’s a non-stop convo.
  2. We text or talk on the phone at least once per day, sometimes more!
  3. We don’t talk or text every day, but we check in several times per week.
  4. Honestly, we don’t text or talk on the phone that much.
12. What group of emojis captures the essence of your connection best?
  1. 👩‍❤️‍👨💘💒💞
  2. 🌹💌❤️💥
  3. 🤗💝🥰💐
  4. 🤣🍻🕺🎉
13. Do the two of you ever argue?
  1. Never! It seems like we’re always on the same page about things.
  2. Sometimes, but we always talk things through until we make up.
  3. Not really. When we disagree, we sorta just let it go.
  4. All the time. We’re both pretty passionate and opinionated!

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    • Signs You’re Compatible

    In general, “Compatibility” refers to how well-suited two people are to each other. If you and your partner (or crush) are super compatible, the connection will feel almost effortless. [1] You’ll just get each other, as if you’re always naturally on the same page. You may have disagreements from time to time (all couples do!) but you’ll always be able to talk things out and find common ground. Here are a few other signs of compatibility to look out for:

    • You have similar values and beliefs when it comes to morality/religion.
    • You share goals for your future together (marriage, children, etc).
    • You live similar lifestyles, so you fit into each other’s lives easily.
    • You enjoy doing a lot of the same activities.
    • You have similar tastes in music, movies, books, and/or art.
    • You have similar intellectual interests.
    • You have similar relationships with your individual families.
    • You share a sense of humor and make each other laugh often.
    • You have similar communication styles.
    • You have the same idea of what a happy home life looks like. [2]

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    References

    1. ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/what-is-relationship-compatibility
    2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202304/24-dimensions-of-compatibility-in-long-term-couples