Be yourself He’s your boyfriend for a reason, so be true to yourself and remind him why he likes you by highlighting your best qualities (e.g., your sense of humor, playfulness, intelligence, quirkiness, thoughtfulness). Examples: “I’m not fond of humans at the moment, but you’re the exception.” “I totally just skipped around the parking lot because it’s raining and I was jonesin’ for a good frolic. Hehe.” Give him compliments Show your boyfriend that you recognize and appreciate his good qualities. Examples: “Your laugh is my favorite.” “I love your hair all messy, you wild, handsome thing.” Thank him Show your boyfriend that you value and appreciate who he is and what he does. Examples: “Thank you for cleaning out my car yesterday, I appreciate it, hon.” “I love how you always know the right words to brighten my day, thank you, babe.” Ask about his day Show your boyfriend you’re interested in his daily life. Examples: “How did your meeting with the publishing agent go today?” “How was your flight? Did you read anything interesting?” Ask for his advice Asking your boyfriend for advice sends the message that you care about his opinions and consider him to have some expertise on a particular topic. Examples: “I’m trying to recreate your incredible tom kha soup… how much coconut milk do you use and what sort of chef magic do you add to it?” “What would you do if you were in my shoes?” Playfully tease him Point out any of his little quirks in a playful way to show that you appreciate him, quirks and all. Examples: “Hey nerd, are you finished solving quantum physics today?” “Thanks for dying that comfy shirt of yours pink, I’m feel lucky to have a boyfriend who has no idea how to do laundry. Hehe. ps. I’m officially claiming it.” Ask a flirty question Asking a playful question will open the door for him to text something flirty back. Examples: “Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You'll have to wait and find out.” “There's this really cute, handsome, sexy guy I've been thinking about all day long... what should I do about it?” Be suggestive Text him something sexually suggestive that will make him excited to see you. Examples: “Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me… 😉” “On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.”