Ask them about their hobbies. “Your garden looks so beautiful! Luke told me you keep it up yourselves?” “When did you learn how to play the guitar?” “I’m a big baseball fan too. What team do you follow?” Ask about their job. “Jack told me that you’re both veterinarians. I think that’s so great. Do you specialize in a certain kind of animal?” “Oh wow, he never told me you worked in city government. That’s so interesting. What exactly do you do?” Ask about their home or the location where you’re meeting. “How long have you guys lived here?” “Have you ever been to this restaurant before?” Ask about movies, TV shows, or books that they enjoy. “Freddy and I are watching this new Netflix show that just came out. Have you guys seen it yet? It’s called…” “We just saw the new Mission Impossible movie. Have you guys watched it?” Ask about things you have in common. “I’ve always wanted to be a teacher myself. Do you enjoy it?” “Harry never told me that you had a dog! I love dogs. How old is she?” “Mr. Richards, Garrett told me you’re a big reader. I am too! What kinds of books do you like?”