Friendly or casual physical gestures Romantic physical gestures She brushes against your arm while passing you quickly in a hallway. She goes out of her way to touch your arm, shoulder, or hand when passing by you or saying hello. She trips and falls into you by accident. She leans against you when alone together or with other people in the room. She briefly balances herself against your shoulder or arm when tying her shoe or trying to reach something high up. She rests her hand for a long time on your shoulder or arm, or runs her fingers through your hair. She taps briefly on your shoulder or arm to get your attention. She rubs your shoulder or gently squeezes your upper arm to get your attention. Her hand briefly touches yours when she passes something to you. She continues to hold onto your hand, even when there is no need to. She gives you a quick hug when saying hello or goodbye. She hugs you for a longer time and rests her face on your shoulder or against your neck.