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What if your 3rd love whom you were married to for 25 years leaves you for a mistress? Is that just it for you?

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The three-loves theory doesn't mean you simply count three loves. It refers to three stages in your love life. It sounds like your husband of 25 years was not your third love. In theory, anyway, your third love is still out there somewhere probably looking for you.

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Can my first love also qualify as my third love?

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It is possible, though rare, for your first love to also be your third love. This occurs if your first relationship deepens over time to encompass the characteristics of a third love, such as authentic connection, profound trust, mutual acceptance of flaws, and a conscious, unwavering commitment to grow together. A third love is typically characterized by choosing your partner for who they truly are, rather than an idealized version.

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What are the signs of the third love?

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The third love is often characterized by a sense of ease, acceptance, and intentionality. It involves accepting one another fully, even as you both evolve, along with unwavering commitment and unconditional love. This type of love moves beyond passion, focusing on mutual growth, and often feels like coming home.

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Does the Three Loves Theory apply only to romantic relationships, or does it also encompass familial and platonic love?

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No, the Three Loves Theory does not solely apply to romantic relationships. While it often describes romantic love, it also encompasses platonic and familial love.

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How can a good friendship suddenly end?

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A friendship might end due to unresolved issues, changing life circumstances, or a shift in values. It can also be a natural progression, as some friendships are meant for a season, not a lifetime, much like people entering and exiting your life's journey. You will likely form new connections as your life evolves.

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