“Accidentally” running into you They find excuses to see you, whether it's showing up at a coffee shop they know you frequent, suggesting to hang out with mutual friends, or hanging out in your neighborhood. Contacting you They may contact you for random reasons (e.g., asking if you have an extra phone charger). They may also call or send late night texts to “check in.” Keeping up with your social media accounts Your ex may follow you on social media, like or comment on your posts/photos, or send you random pictures or articles. Perking up in your presence Watch to see if they light up when you're around (e.g., smiling, standing close, displaying open body language, acting overly giddy or playful). Bringing up old times They express nostalgia about past times together in an effort to remind you of how good things used to be before your breakup. Asking your friends and family about you Your ex might as your friends or family how you’re doing or if you’re seeing anyone new. This means they’re curious about where you are after the breakup (i.e., if you’re dating again, single, or struggling to move on). Hanging onto your things Your ex might want to keep your stuff around to remind them of you. Lashing out at you Bursts of anger or frustration are signs that your ex is still harboring feelings for you that weren’t addressed when you broke up. Sharing exciting moments Your ex might share news of a promotion, an exciting trip, or any other updates about their life. This shows that (to him) you’re still that special person he wants to share high-points of his life with. Asking for advice This is a sign your ex still cares about your opinions on certain matters (or, they’re seeking input as an excuse to talk to you). Flaunting a new relationship They might purposefully brag about their new romantic interest in an attempt to make you jealous. Saying they’ve changed The subtext reads: I’ve learned how to be a better partner for you, please give me another shot?