Use casual, non-flirty language while asking him to hang out. “Would you like to grab lunch on Thursday?” “What are you doing this weekend? I was thinking we could check out the Farmer’s Market on Main Street.” “I’m finally going to see Black Panther on Saturday...I can’t wait! Want to go with me?” Invite mutual friends to hang out with you. “Fiona, Alex, Brandon and I are heading to the mall after class today. You should come with!” “How do you guys feel about a board game night at my place? I’ll set up a group text so we can plan it more easily.” “We should check out that new Thai place down the street. I’ve been wanting to go there for a while!” Tell him clearly that you don’t want it to be a date. “I really value the time we spend together, and I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize our friendship. Are you cool just being friends?” “I want to make sure we’re on the same page. I’m not looking for anyone to date right now, but I really enjoy hanging out with you as a friend.”