Q&A for How to Attach Thigh Highs to a Garter Belt

Six straps or more will give you a better hold for all day use, but if you're only wearing it in the bedroom or for a little while, four straps are fine.

Put your stockings on, then attach your garter belt to the stockings first then pull up the belt and stockings like a pair of pantyhose.

Usually, yes, but I would try it on in the shop just to make sure, as you definitely don't want it to be too tight.

You can't force anyone, but you can start a conversation by asking if she'd be willing to wear them and, if not, why.