We’re not cold at all! You mistake our inability to be fake for coldness. If a Virgo was “cold” to you, it’s because they sensed some shady characteristics about you and didn’t deem you trustworthy enough to let down their guard. I can tell by your choice of words that you must have put those Virgos off with your commentary. It’s funny how ppl who don’t really understand Virgos think we’re practical. We’re actually extremely emotional. Most often, leading with our hearts. What a shame that you can’t connect deeply with a Virgo, because a Virgo who loves you will do anything for you. If you didn’t connect, I can guarantee it’s because you didn’t come off as sincere. And we don’t bother with that ish.

This isn’t entirely true. I’m a Virgo and I can tell you I don’t give unsolicited advice. I mind my business and above everything else, what makes me cringe the most is when others give unsolicited advice. Virgos are lone creatures. We don’t bother or go out of our way to bother, and in turn, expect the same courtesy of being left alone. We detest being bothered. <br /><br />Do I think I’m right about certain things? Sure! I think it in my head, yes, but I don’t go out of my way to put someone else down even if I think I’m right. Even when I have all the facts bc Virgos always come prepared with all the receipts. If we say “I’m sure,” it’s because we did our research. We do not like to be embarrassed, so we won’t come out with a statement of certainty unless we can back it up. <br /><br />Now, I can only speak for myself, but if I’ve established a comfortable rapport with someone, I speak my mind, and even then, I’ll do so gently. Virgos do not like conflict. We hate it! We will avoid it like the plague. So despite knowing we’re right about some things, we won’t butt heads w ppl of our own volition. However, if someone tries us, then heaven help them. They started it, so it’s on them as to what happens next bc we will send the perp to hell in a hand basket and they won’t even realize it. We’re very good at that. <br /><br />As far as getting us to open up, it’s actually quite easy. We will be open books with the people we feel comfortable with. That’s all there is to it. And we have this knack for honing in on who we can trust. That’s where the issue lies. We don’t mesh with everyone, but once a Virgo trusts, there is no end to what we’ll do for that person. We love so deeply and commit with every fiber of our being.