April Davis
Matchmaker
April Davis is a Matchmaker based in Minneapolis, Minnesota. She is the Founder and President of LUMA, a high-end executive matchmaking service designed for singles seeking a long-term committed relationship. April established LUMA in 2010 with the belief that everyone deserves to be in a healthy, loving, and long-lasting relationship. April employs a team of professional matchmakers with over two decades of experience, committed to finding their members the person they will spend the rest of their lives with. In addition to their matchmaking offerings, LUMA offers date coaching services. LUMA was featured on Inc. 5000’s list of Fastest Growing Companies, and April was featured for her work on Bravo's Hit Reality Show, Real Housewives of the OC. Through LUMA’s customized approach for members, dating coaching services, and cultivated connection-building, April has designed a business to help clients meet their perfect match. She received a Master’s Degree in Business Administration, Management and Operations and a BA in Accounting and Business/Management from The College of St. Scholastica.
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Give me some adorable date ideas!
This is so sweet! Here are some of my top suggestions for adorable, romantic dates:
Plan a picnic in the park, complete with blankets, snacks, and a dedicated playlist. You can also make a handwritten menu for the snacks!
A trending date idea is to paint each other's pictures. This can be so cute, especially if you're not an artist!
Go on a local scavenger hunt. This is my personal favorite suggestion. Make a list of a few rare finds and head to a bookstore, antique shop, and your farmer's market.
Go stargazing! All you need is a light pollution map. From there, you can find areas close by that allow you to see a clear night sky. Bring some blankets!
Plan a stay at a themed hotel! This one might require a bit of planning as there aren't many themed hotels left, but you'll surely be in for a silly, unforgettable experience.
Plan a picnic in the park, complete with blankets, snacks, and a dedicated playlist. You can also make a handwritten menu for the snacks!
A trending date idea is to paint each other's pictures. This can be so cute, especially if you're not an artist!
Go on a local scavenger hunt. This is my personal favorite suggestion. Make a list of a few rare finds and head to a bookstore, antique shop, and your farmer's market.
Go stargazing! All you need is a light pollution map. From there, you can find areas close by that allow you to see a clear night sky. Bring some blankets!
Plan a stay at a themed hotel! This one might require a bit of planning as there aren't many themed hotels left, but you'll surely be in for a silly, unforgettable experience.
What's something sweet you can do in a long-distance relationship
I'm so glad you asked this! Here are some of my favorite ways to show your long-distance partner how much you care about them:
Send them a handwritten letter. It can really be about anything, but I suggest writing something romantic, like your favorite memory with them.
Make them a dedicated playlist. Add in some of their favorite songs and songs that remind you of them.
If you're creative, trying drawing or painting your partner and then sending it to them. This can be such a sweet surprise!
Order them their favorite takeout. Of course, you'll want to be sure they'll be home for it!
Adopt something in your partner's name, like an endangered animal or even a star. This is my favorite suggestion because it's so deeply romantic and meaningful.
Send them a handwritten letter. It can really be about anything, but I suggest writing something romantic, like your favorite memory with them.
Make them a dedicated playlist. Add in some of their favorite songs and songs that remind you of them.
If you're creative, trying drawing or painting your partner and then sending it to them. This can be such a sweet surprise!
Order them their favorite takeout. Of course, you'll want to be sure they'll be home for it!
Adopt something in your partner's name, like an endangered animal or even a star. This is my favorite suggestion because it's so deeply romantic and meaningful.
How can you meet people without dating apps?
I know that dating apps can feel like your only option for meeting other singles now, but I promise there are tons of old-school ways to make new connections!
Don't be afraid to tell your friends and family that you're single and looking. Your social circle can be your best way to meet truly compatible singles. Plus, meeting someone through a mutual helps build trust early on.
Get out there and go out on the town! COVID has done a number on nightlife, but more people are slowly dipping their toes in the water again and going out with their friends. Start going to local festivals that pique your interest, checking out unique, local venues, or pick up a new hobby you can do in a group, like painting or pottery.
Depending on your budget and relationship goals, a matchmaker can be a great option as well. Matchmakers typically only work with singles who want a committed relationship, so if you're just casually dating, it might not be a great fit. But if you're looking for something serious, a matchmaker can help make dating more personalized, supportive, and successful.
Don't be afraid to tell your friends and family that you're single and looking. Your social circle can be your best way to meet truly compatible singles. Plus, meeting someone through a mutual helps build trust early on.
Get out there and go out on the town! COVID has done a number on nightlife, but more people are slowly dipping their toes in the water again and going out with their friends. Start going to local festivals that pique your interest, checking out unique, local venues, or pick up a new hobby you can do in a group, like painting or pottery.
Depending on your budget and relationship goals, a matchmaker can be a great option as well. Matchmakers typically only work with singles who want a committed relationship, so if you're just casually dating, it might not be a great fit. But if you're looking for something serious, a matchmaker can help make dating more personalized, supportive, and successful.
When to ask this person if they wanna date me?
It sounds like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. I get that your friend is graduating soon and you might have to continue the relationship long distance, but that doesn't mean you should give up. If you two truly share a strong bond, it doesn't matter if they leave your hometown to go to university. I wouldn't worry about going on more dates before popping the question; you already have a friendship with this person and have trust established. I would take the leap and ask them how they feel about pursuing a relationship right now. And accept beforehand that they might want to start their freshman year of school as just friends.
What are some fun questions to ask your partner?
Here are some of my favorite questions to ask your partner to strengthen your connection:
What fictional character was your hero growing up?
What food could you eat every day and not get tired of?
What's your favorite memory from any vacation you've been on?
What's your dream date idea?
What songs remind you of me?
What's the wildest thing on your bucket list?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you be?
If you could invent a holiday, what would it be?
What fictional character was your hero growing up?
What food could you eat every day and not get tired of?
What's your favorite memory from any vacation you've been on?
What's your dream date idea?
What songs remind you of me?
What's the wildest thing on your bucket list?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you be?
If you could invent a holiday, what would it be?
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