Got crush for the first time!

04/15/25 9:50pm

So basically there is this guy .... (in my school not same section but in same year) he was vice president of the school (before my exams end) He is kind a popular for sure and tall (lol).

There was a certain situations happen like he came beside me for no reason... and i got rejection to be friend with him (even i tried as someone else tho) .. but then are final exams came... and this whole week. we atleast make three eye contacts in a day... but on the last exam.. the sitting arrangement changed...and my crush kind a look with "glares" (I know i might be being bit too much delusional but still what if he was jealous) We never had convo...but in past class test he asked me for cheating in exam and i denied.. (kind a make bad response that makes him suppress weird smirk) ... so that's the all thing going on... and now i have no idea... that what should i do... cause this last year.. i wanna focus on my study but also last chance to experience school love.. and if... we end up in relationship i do not wanna do long distance... and we don't have same career line too. ( NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO I'M MESS.. and it's my first time to have crush on someone)

Sorry for bad english and big para.

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04/15/25 9:51pm

If you're talking to your crush for the first time, don't put a lot of pressure on yourself to make it perfect. Just take a breath to relax and act like your genuine self. Show off your best traits, like your sense of humor and your caring personality, so he wants to talk with you more. Just see how it goes and don't worry too much about the future at this stage—focus on getting to know him and seeing if you're compatible.

To start a conversation with him, keep it casual and friendly by saying hi. Try to bring up things that he's interested in so he feels engaged in the conversation. Pay attention to what he likes or ask his friends what he's into, then ask a few questions relating to those topics so you can learn more about him. Remember to listen closely to his responses so you can ask some follow-up questions and keep the convo going.

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Joshua Pompey
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04/15/25 10:46pm

To show interest in your crush, you definitely want to be on the playful side when it comes to text messaging or in-person interactions. Just keep things friendly. As far as just body language, some playful touches here and there work well. Try to break away from being in the friend zone and subtly communicate that there is potential on more of a romantic and physical level. You want to communicate to your crush here and there that you are interested in those subtle ways.

When it comes to keeping conversations going, you just want to avoid the small talk and everyday questions. Get into what's going on in your life or start out with a funny story. Then just let the conversation naturally evolve. When you start conversations in a more natural way, it's more entertaining and looks less desperate than just saying, “Hey, what's up?” Once you're already talking, that's where you want to try to be a little flirty every now and then use those conversations as opportunities to progress the attraction and interest level.

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Itsss Amyyyy!

04/17/25 1:11am

Look good, talk to him, have confidence and good hygiene, raise your eyebrows it will make you look attractive, bite you lips it will look attractive, let him come to you, Don't make it obvious that you like him and flirt a little. Good luck!

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