What Do You Wear on a Bowling Date? 18 Stylish Outfit Ideas for Guys & Girls

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Look like a 10 (pin) on your first date at the bowling alley
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A bowling alley date means tons of laughter, delish food, and sweet celebrations after every strike. But what will you wear? You're probably looking for a style that'll impress your date but won't hinder your bowling skills. Below, we've pulled together all of the cutest, comfiest outfit ideas for your perfect date. Read on to discover how you can be a total knockout while you knock down those pins!

What to Wear Bowling: Cute Date Outfits

If you’re going on a bowling date, the best outfit to wear is something you feel attractive, comfortable, and completely yourself in. If you’re not sure, stick to wardrobe staples like jeans, T-shirts, loose-fitting pants, sweaters, and sneakers. You might pair high-waisted jeans with a cool graphic tee, for example.

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How to Dress for a Bowling Date

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  1. Bowling is a pretty low-key date, so you want to dress to impress without really dressing up . Play it safe (but still look cute!) by wearing some of your go-to wardrobe staples that you look and feel really good in. For example, you might try your best-fitting pair of jeans with your favorite T-shirt or tank top. [1]
    • Loose-fitting dresses, relaxed pants, and cozy sweaters are also great options for a bowling date.
  2. Clothing that’s too tight or restrictive can make bowling a challenge since you’ll want to feel comfortable enough to throw your strikes, bend down to pick up the ball, sit on the bench, etc. [2] With this idea in mind, it may be best to opt for loose-fitting jeans and cropped slacks over short skirts, low-cut tops, or skinny jeans.
    • Similarly, stick to casual, everyday clothing. Formalwear (like ties, silk skirts, or other dressy items) may make you stand out in the humble, family-oriented environment of a bowling alley.
    • However, tracksuits and other types of loungewear may come off as low-effort. Be mindful of wearing something casual, but not so casual that you look like you just rolled out of bed—that is definitely unlikely to leave a positive impression on your date.
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  3. Make sure you have clean, hole-free socks with you—either wear them to the lanes or store a pair in your bag. [3] Don’t sweat your shoe choice too much, since you’ll have to rent shoes at the bowling alley anyways, but stick with shoes that are easy to take on and off—like sneakers or ankle boots.
  4. Some bowling alleys have certain rules around what their patrons can and cannot wear. If you’re unsure about the rules, it may be worth calling ahead to see what your local bowling alley allows—after all, there’s nothing worse than showing up to a date and being barred entry based on what you’re wearing. Here are some common no-nos for the average bowling alley:
    • Ripped clothing: Includes any jeans, shirts, jackets, or other items with rips in them.
    • Offensive clothing: Any article with imagery or messaging that’s racist, sexist, or otherwise offensive. [4]
    • Heels, flip flops, and work boots: Certain types of shoes are banned from bowling lanes due to their potential for injury or causing damage to the floors.
    • Hats: Some alleys have no-hat policies, so check with your local lanes before wearing one to cover up a first-date bad hair day.
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18 Bowling Date Outfit Ideas for Guys & Girls

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  1. Pull on that white tee that makes you feel exceptionally confident. Then, pair it with your comfiest leggings. This look would go great with a cool baseball hat , so rep your favorite team for an instant conversation starter! [5]
    • Why we love this look: When you feel good, you look good. What feels better than a nice pair of leggings?
  2. Try on a look that says: I picked this out in five seconds—but I still look amazing. Nothing beats a colorful flannel paired with trendy ripped jeans or another casual pair of bottoms. [6] For an extra cute touch, pull on a scarf that matches the color in your flannel.
    • Why we love this look: It’s flattering on everyone and can be found in almost every closet.
  3. Go for an absolutely classic look by pairing your favorite button-down with a cool pair of dark-wash jeans. Make this style your own by choosing between a button-down that’s more crisp and tailored or more of a floaty linen vibe. Whatever you choose, pair it with a nice pair of dark-wash or black jeans that make you feel comfy and cute. [7]
    • Why we love this look: Almost everyone has this fit (or a version of it) in their closet. It’s effortlessly cool while also being a great base layer for more personalized accessorizing or other bits of flair.
    • Expert dating coach Lisa Shield recommends a version of this look for any first date, affirming that “there’s no sexier, more classic look than a pair of great jeans, some boots, and a white button-down top.”
  4. Wear ripped, light wash jeans and pair them with “a cool leather jacket…[for] a really classic, cool look,” recommends Shield. Match black leather boots with your jacket to elevate the look. Bonus points if your jacket is studded or motorcycle style ! [8]
    • Why we love this look: It’s filled with personality but still looks effortlessly chic on anyone.
  5. If you want something equal parts chic and cozy, go for a sporty look. [9] A chic matching sweat suit takes about five seconds to pull together but still creates a crisp aesthetic. Plus, with a fit this comfortable, you’ll be rolling in the strikes. Match your socks with your sweatsuit for an even sleeker look. *chef’s kiss*
    • Why we love this look: It’s comfortable, easy to pull together, and super stylish when done right.
  6. If you have a hip, eye-catching jacket at home, use this to your advantage. Anything fringed, floral, or metallic will be perfect. Pair your jacket with an understated tee to achieve a balanced, trendy look. [10] Keep accessories to a minimum—you want all eyes on your hip, unique jacket.
    • Why we love this look: You’re still comfy in your simple jeans + tee combo, but the statement jacket transforms your outfit into something really memorable.
  7. There’s something about a bowling alley that just feels so nostalgic—so stick to the theme with a sexy 1970s style. Pair medium wash, bell-bottom jeans with a satin or bell-sleeved top . [11] Finish the fit with a tie-top headband or bandana. [12]
    • Why we love this look: It’s elegant, fun, and full of personality!
  8. If you’re a preppier kind of dresser, go for a crisp but casual look with a fitted polo and a pair of tan-colored pants. This fit gives off those classic, quiet luxury vibes while still feeling relaxed enough for the neighborhood bowling alley. Complete the look with other classic accessories like a chunky watch or thin gold chain, or go for a summery look with sunglasses and a baseball cap. [13]
    • Why we love this look: This tailored fit makes anyone look a bit more put together, and it transforms easily into a post-bowling dinner date look if all goes well.
  9. For a super stand-out look, consider wearing a vintage bowling shirt —they’re more stylish than you might think! Old-school bowling uniforms give off a cute, tongue-in-cheek, eclectic grandpa vibe (which is a good thing). Pair the bowling shirt with high-waisted jeans for a more laid-back look, or layer it over a cute tank dress for something a bit more dressy. [14]
  10. A graphic T-shirt can be an awesome conversation starter for a first date, and it matches the retro, vintage vibes of your typical bowling alley. Choose a graphic tee that says something about you—whether that’s your fave band or regular coffee shop—and pair it with mid-length shorts for a fit that’s as chilled out as it is charming. [15]
    • Why we love this look: It makes you look super cool and feel more relaxed while also instantly giving your date an idea of who you are and what you’re into!
  11. Show up in a shirt with a funny slogan and you could make your date laugh before you two even sit down to play! Pair your favorite graphic tee with a button-down skirt and sneakers. [16] To complete the look, grab your favorite patterned tote bag before you head out.
    • Why we love this look: It’s playful, cute, and totally you . Plus, as long as your skirt doesn’t feel too tight, this look will definitely allow you to get moving.
  12. Crop tops and high-waisted jeans are having an absolute moment. This fit can handle all of your tosses, trick shots, and celebrations. Plus, it’s also a sexy, eye-catching look. Pair with a leather belt to help pull the outfit together. [17]
    • Why we love this look: It's flattering, comfy, and sure to get your date's attention.
  13. When you dress in head-to-toe white, you automatically look pulled together. [18] Pair a comfy pair of white jeans with a white blouse. If you have a white blazer or jacket to match, throw that on to complete the look. Add a metallic accent for an exciting touch.
    • Why we love this look: It’s comfy enough to bowl in but still gives off a formal, clean-cut vibe.
  14. If you love sweet, preppy looks, pull on your favorite romper . [19] This look is the ultimate low-investment-high-reward style, so prepare to turn heads. If you choose a short-sleeved look, bring a cozy sweater along, too.
    • Why we love this look: Rompers are so darn cute! Plus, they take about 0.5 seconds to pick out and pull on, but they make you look super put-together.
  15. Pair your favorite fun, colorful sweater with a thigh-length patterned skirt. For a bit of extra flair, throw on some thick-framed glasses (you can totally buy fakes if you've got 20/20 vision—we won't tell!). Show off your quirky, cute style while still keeping all the mobility you need to knock down those pins.
    • Why we love this look: It’s unique and playful. You’ll show your date that your outfit is just as fun as you are.
  16. If you prefer feminine styles, go for a sweet, girly fit. Throw on your favorite wrap dress with a light-washed jean jacket . Finally, round off the look with your fav elegant necklace. A silver or rose gold locket would be a perfect addition.
    • Why we love this look: It’s super cute and semi-formal but won't hurt your mad bowling skills.
  17. If you love a romantic, sexy look, wear the LBD. You know that little black dress that makes you feel absolutely amazing? That’s the one to pull out for your date—after all, research shows that black clothing is seen as the most fashionable. [20] Dress this look down with a jean jacket, and you’ll have a bowling-approved style that’s sure to turn heads.
    • Why we love this look: The jacket makes this totally casual. But once you toss the jacket, suddenly, you’re a total smoke show!
    • Depending on the length of your LBD, you may want to wear shorts or tights underneath so that you don’t have to worry about any wardrobe malfunctions as you bowl.
  18. If you love flashy looks, go for a glam style—especially if you two hit the alley at night; there’s no reason you can’t spice up your outfit a bit! Wear your fav shiny halter top and a black, knee-length skirt (just make sure you can really move in your skirt beforehand). Throw on your favorite eye-catching jewelry, like a set of chunky silver bracelets . [21]
    • Why we love this look: This look will show your date that you always dress to impress—even at the bowling alley.
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FAQs About Bowling Date-Night Outfits

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  1. If you feel comfortable wearing a skirt or dress on a bowling date, you absolutely can! Just be mindful that you’ll be moving around a lot while bowling, so it’s best to avoid mini skirts or anything shorter than mid-thigh. If you do want to wear a shorter skirt or dress to your bowling date, wear shorts or leggings underneath so you don’t have to worry about wardrobe malfunctions. [22]
    • You may also want to avoid wearing a long, flowy maxi skirt that might trip you up (literally) while bowling for strikes.
  2. Some bowling alleys do sell socks, but others don’t. It’s also best to bring (or wear) your own socks on a bowling date, but you can call ahead to your bowling alley to check if they provide socks.
  3. Bowling is a great first date if both parties enjoy bowling! It’s an indoor activity, meaning it can take place regardless of the weather and gives you and your date something to focus on rather than having to make small talk all evening. Plus, bowling alleys are very public places, making them a safe and comfortable environment when meeting someone for the first time. [23]
    • Bowling first dates are also fairly cost-effective, with games costing around $8-$10 depending on your location. [24] Plus, alleys often have arcade games or bar areas where you can continue the fun if the first part of the date goes well!
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