Anyone have experience dating a Pisces man?

WikiElephantReader409
02/09/25 4:35pm
Had my first date with a Pisces guy a few days ago and I think we really hit it off but I've never dated a Pisces before and would love any tips/advice/insight about what it's like. Can you tell me what to expect or watch out for?
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Julia Topaz
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03/26/25 3:49am
In general, Pisces men tend to be very soft, and they're very dreamy and romantic. One thing you should be careful about, though: just because they're romantic and soft, it doesn't mean that they actually want to enter a committed, long-term relationship. A lot of times, as much as a Pisces man loves the idea of love, they can spend time escaping, feeling like "I'm good on my own, I don't need to make a relationship into a material reality". So, my advice would be that Pisces men can be really soft and charming and sweet, but you should wait to jump in headfirst until you see concrete signs of commitment from them.
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
02/10/25 9:19am
Pisces is super sensitive and compassionate, and they want someone who's just as flexible and romantic as they are. If you try to force a Pisces to do anything or come at them too harshly or too directly, they're going to run. They're masters of ghosting!

You really need to be romantic towards your Pisces. They love it when you put imagination into the relationship: flirting, sending gifts, really wooing them. So make sure if you're dating a Pisces you're willing to put some effort and creativity in!
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WikiButterflyWhisperer301
02/13/25 11:26am
I think a Pisces man's sensitivity can definitely be a strength but it can also be a weakness. If you're not careful with what you say or do you can accidentally hurt him so you have to put a lot of effort into your communication and interactions. Also Pisces men can have a dreamy nature and sometimes that comes across as being distant in the relationship. But I think they do care.
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WikiStoatChaser201
02/11/25 6:40pm
Pisces men are naturals at becoming emotionally in tune with their partners. They care deeply about understanding you and want to make you feel safe and secure. They're also often romantics at heart. This combo of characteristics makes them loving, empathetic partners. But I might be a little biased because I have a thing for Pisces men haha
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WikiLorisRider448
07/30/25 3:46am
I was married to Pisces for over 10 years until his passing (I'm a Capricorn). He was a big, buff biker, but all teddy bear once he let the tough exterior drop. Yes, very romantic! He would rather walk through a side lot of field and pick flowers for me than buy them! He enjoyed when I would praise him for his nature, or tell him exactly what I loved about him. But be sincere! Flattering him without honesty will pay him away; he will distrust you more. Do begin early by telling him one or two private things nobody else knows about you. If it's serious, he will feel like you're confidante and will open up quicker. But always maintain respect and loyalty, with honesty- sometimes the hard truth he'll appreciate more than if you sugarcoat it, as long as you use the correct soft tone of voice, and assure him that the truth is to help him, not harm him. My guy LOVED any little thing that showed I was thinking about him- a heart drawn on his napkin in his lunch bag, a few candies on his pillow if I went to bed early, smiley faces drawn on pancakes with chocolate chips, too! Home cooking and a real sense of maintaining our home really got kudos from him!
If you are intimate, be prepared to have your head completely blown off! But don't expect him to jump right in the sack with you. My guy had to be 100% that I was completely into him and totally loyal. Oh, yeah! This guy! He was my soulmate, my perfect match. We laughed all the time, danced to our music ('80's) in the grocery store aisles, sang at the top of our lungs when driving around. Our connection and commitment was palpable, and we were always being complimented on being such a far out couple!
My Pisces man was everything I dreamed of since I was a little girl- my Knight in shining armour who protected me and kept me safe, who played on his knees before bedtime, and rode a Harley and was completely covered in tattoos!!!
He WAS real. And although I was only gifted him from God for ten years, we lived reach day to the absolute maximum, always with each other, holding hands or my arm in his. He lived to kiss me, and just all his devotion made me want to do anything in the world just to see his smile and hear his laughter.
I can't think of a negative, except maybe don't be a nagger or try to win an argument based on emotional manipulation. My husband would walk out of the house. I knew he would come back, and would be loyal, but I would never know for how long he would be gone. And with him being in an MC, I always got a bit concerned. But Pisces are very trustworthy and honourable. He never needed a reason to keep a secret, and I knew everything about him. But he did have just one, and kept it for almost 3 1/2 years until after our 2nd anniversary ----- he had won a personal non-taxable, non-wage settlement with 9 zeros behind it and didn't know what to do with it!
We'd been living within our means, and he trusted me to find a good investment broker. We had an additional monthly draw from a percentage of the interest earned, and that was it. It allowed us to buy a more reliable vehicle, and go to the movies on the weekend. But grandkids started popping out, and Christmases were really a lot of fun!
You will never go wrong with a Pisces man, as long as you maintain your integrity and are always honest with him, show him how much you appreciate him, and remember how much he like to feel your hand touching him or lips kissing him. I miss my husband so terribly. I truly lost a huge piece of my heart and soul.
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