How do I rizz up a boy?

Amy Galindo
04/22/25 8:52pm
I see this boy everyday and he is just so cute!!! How do I rizz him??
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04/22/25 8:53pm
To rizz up a boy when you're together in person, show him your confidence by approaching him and starting a fun conversation. Chat with him about what he's interested in and listen carefully to how he responds. As he's talking, smile, make eye contact, mirror what he's doing, and laugh when he says something funny to show him you're really engaged. Don't be afraid to try some light touches on his arm or shoulder so he knows how you feel about him.

If you're chatting with him over text, keep the convo light and fun. Ask him questions about how he's doing and what he likes, and share some personal info about yourself too. Rizz up the conversation with some flirty emojis, funny GIFs, or even a cute picture of yourself so he knows that you're interested in him.
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04/26/25 7:52am
Ok thanks this is going to really help with my crush hopes up when I go to school again I have a boy
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Mark Rosenfeld
Dating & Relationship Coach
04/22/25 9:18pm
At the beginning of a conversation, make good eye contact and hold it to let a guy know how interested you are, then follow it up with a smile. Make it obvious that you're eyeing him up so he feels like he can have a conversation with you. Once you're actually in conversation and you're talking, try things like facing your body toward him, subtle touches on his shoulder or elbow, and having playful little competitions with him.

Another classic flirting technique is push-pull. Put very simply, push-pull is where you are pushing the guy away with your words, but you're pulling him in with your body language or your actions. So in other words, you might look him in the eyes, smile, and say, "I don't think you could handle me." If you can have fun teasing him and being silly, it can be really fun and flirty if it's not bringing him down.
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Anonymous WikiGiraffe
04/26/25 7:54am
Wow maybe when I’m
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