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What exactly is a chapstick lesbian?

06/10/25 4:56pm
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A “chapstick lesbian” refers to someone who exhibits some butch or masculine traits, but they don’t fully fit into the typical masculine/butch stereotype. They may present as slightly more androgynous or lean toward a soft-masc aesthetic, for example. The term “chapstick lesbian” is often used to contrast the term “lipstick lesbian,” which refers to someone who presents as more traditionally feminine.
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