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Learn how to counteract passive-aggressive behavior
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We all know someone who is super passive-aggressive: instead of just telling you why they’re upset, they might make snide remarks or criticize you in little ways. Over time, passive-aggressive behavior can get really irritating, especially if you see this person often. Fortunately, there are concrete ways you can deal with a passive-aggressive person (and hopefully get them to turn their behavior around). Keep reading for expert tips on counteracting passive-aggressive behavior, even when you’re super annoyed by it.
Things You Should Know
- Stay calm and don’t get defensive. That way, the passive-aggressive person can’t paint themselves as the victim.
- Ask them what their comment or behavior means to put them on the spot. That way, they’ll have to either backpedal or admit what they’re doing.
- Set clear boundaries by outlining what behavior isn’t acceptable, and check in often to see if they’re following through.
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References
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/how-to-deal-with-a-passive-aggressive-person#how-to-respond
- ↑ https://www.shrm.org/resourcesandtools/hr-topics/people-managers/pages/passive-aggressive-workers-.aspx
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-be-yourself/202010/5-ways-deal-passive-aggressive-people
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-be-yourself/202010/5-ways-deal-passive-aggressive-people
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-be-yourself/202010/5-ways-deal-passive-aggressive-people
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