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If you’re into anime and manga, you’re likely familiar with the word “weeaboo,” a slang term for a person who has an unhealthy obsession with aspects of Japanese culture, like anime and manga. This word (understandably) doesn’t have the best reputation—so how can you create a safe distance between yourself and this negative label? We’re here to help. Read on to learn which negative stereotypes to avoid, as well as ways to respectfully engage with Japanese culture.
Things You Should Know
- Refrain from falling into common weeaboo stereotypes, like adding Japanese words to your regular conversations.
- Focus on your non-Japanese hobbies and side interests rather than doing activities solely related to manga and anime.
- Learn the Japanese language and study Japanese history to engage with the culture in a healthy way.
Steps
How to Avoid Common “Weeaboo” Stereotypes
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1Refrain from sprinkling Japanese words into day-to-day conversations. It’s always great fun to learn new words and phrases from a different language and culture—but hybridizing these words into your regular conversations isn’t the way to go. At best, it’s incredibly cringe-worthy; at worst, it comes across as disrespectful to turn foreign words into glorified slang. [1] X Research source
- For example, if you think your friend’s shirt is cute, tell them that straight up—don’t try to sprinkle in complimentary Japanese words like “kawaii” (cute).
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2Limit how much anime merch you wear out and about. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wearing T-shirts, hoodies, and any other kind of merch for your favorite anime and manga series. You might, however, start to give off the wrong impression if these types of garments are the only articles of clothing that you wear. Try to keep your wardrobe options fresh and new so people don’t get the wrong idea.Advertisement
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3Embrace your non-Japanese interests and passions. Are you a huge fan of oil painting, or do you love volunteering at your local animal shelter? Spend time with all the different hobbies and interests that bring you joy and fulfillment, rather than engaging with interests exclusively related to anime and manga.
- If you’re deep in the trenches of a new show, series, or franchise, look for fresh and exciting ways to interact with the content, like drawing fan art or writing fan fiction.
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4Enjoy a wide variety of media from a wide variety of cultures. Streaming platforms like Netflix and Hulu make it easier than ever to explore media featuring actors, directors, and producers from across the world. Check out some international TV shows like:
- El Marginal (from Argentina)
- Strong Girl Bong-soon (from South Korea)
- Sacred Games (from India)
- Please Like Me (from Australia) [2] X Research source
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5Stay grounded in your own cultural identity. A trademark stereotype of weeaboos is their desire to be Japanese, which is a big step above simply enjoying Japanese media and franchises. [3] X Research source The key to avoiding this unfortunate misstep is to embrace who you are , as well as your cultural identity. At the end of the day, there’s no need (or reason) to transplant yourself into another country’s culture.
- A nation’s culture and traditions belong to the people who have grown up there and been raised with them. Even if a person’s intentions are good, it’s ultimately disrespectful for them to try and “adopt” this sense of tradition and identity for themselves when they don’t actually belong to the culture in question.
How to Appreciate Japanese Culture without Being a Weeaboo
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1Try learning the Japanese language rather than a few vocab words. Diving into a country’s language is one of the best ways to get an inside look at their culture, mannerisms, and perspective on life. [4] X Research source If manga and anime have sparked a genuine interest in Japanese culture within you, take your passion a step further with free resources like:
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2Try making Japanese food at home. What better way to learn more about Japanese culture and cuisine than with firsthand experience? Stock up on ingredients that are pretty common in Japanese recipes, like soy sauce, miso , rice vinegar , mirin (rice wine) , and dashi (soup stock base) . [5] X Research source As you begin your cooking journey, start with easy recipes like:
- Omurice
- Sukiyaki
- Onigiri
- Udon
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3Study Japanese history. Like every other country, Japan has a rich and complex history that informs a lot of its current culture. YouTube has plenty of great resources if you’re looking to get your feet wet, like Bill Wurtz’s viral “ History of Japan ” video. If you’d like to take an even deeper dive into Japanese history and culture, check out books like:
- A Modern History of Japan: From Tokugawa Times to the Present by Andrew Gordon
- A Concise History of Japan by Brett Walker
- The Book of Yokai: Mysterious Creatures of Japanese Folklore by Michael Dylan Foster and Shinonome Kijin
- History of Art in Japan by Nobuo Tsuji and Nicole Coolidge Rousmaniere
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4Learn about Japanese culture. Free resources like JapanesePod101 offer plenty of detailed and insightful “classes” about different elements of Japanese culture, from common superstitions and blood type beliefs to info about cherry blossom viewing and the star festival. Some other great educational resources include:
Origins of “Weeaboo” & Similar Terms
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1The word "weeaboo" stems from a 2000s comic strip. In the 2000s, comic artist Nicholas Gurewitch used the nonsense word “weeaboo” in one of his “Perry Bible Fellowship” comics. This term was reclaimed by moderators of a popular forum site known as 4chan, where it was used to censor/replace slurs used against people who were completely obsessed and infatuated with everything related to Japanese culture. The term has grown in popularity, with the former nonsense word becoming a label for these types of obsessive fans. [6] X Research source
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2"Weeaboo" and "weeb" have become more humorous terms in recent years. While the term weeaboo (and weeb, by extension) officially carries the same negative definition, not everyone uses it in a negative way. Many people use the term when cracking a joke or engaging in meme culture.
- For example, an anime fan might post a funny picture on social media with the caption “Only weebs will get this.”
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3"Otaku" refers to people with a specific interest in anime. It’s important to note, however, that the term “otaku” implies that person in question has a healthy balance between their passion for anime and their everyday life, while weeaboos lack that distinction. [7] X Research source Think of it like calling someone a nerd versus calling someone a stan (slang for stalker + fan). Neither term is objectively complimentary, but “stan” has a much more negative connotation than “nerd.”
- In Japan, the word otaku is used more as a noun for someone who’s a nerd or enthusiast about something. For instance, there are game otaku (fans of video games), idol otaku (fans of idol singers and groups), manga otaku, anime otaku, and so on. [8] X Research source
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4A "Japanophile" is interested in Japanese culture and tradition. Different from a weeaboo, a Japanophile is not interested only in pop culture. The term Japanophile has a more respectful connotation attached to it. [9] X Research source
Final Takeaway
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It doesn’t matter what other people choose to label you. Unfortunately, there’s no precise “checklist” that can save you from being labeled a certain way. What matters most is that you’re pursuing interests and passions that you really enjoy and that you’re engaging with them respectfully and in moderation.
- If someone’s poking fun at you with inconsiderate nicknames and labels, poke a little fun back by mentioning how outdated the words “weeb” and “weeaboo” really are. You might say something like: “You’re calling me a weeaboo? Really? 2012 called—they want their slang back.”
Community Q&A
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QuestionIf I cook Japanese food, am I a weeaboo?CeheaCommunity AnswerOf course not. You're only considered a weaboo if you're obsessed with Japan. You're allowed to appreciate Japanese culture and eat Japanese food.Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
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QuestionWould studying Japanese and going abroad make me a weeaboo?NY BlossomTop AnswererNo. Liking the culture doesn't make you a weeaboo. Obsessing over the culture does.Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
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QuestionIs it okay for me to be offended if a weeaboo comes up to me and assumes I'm Japanese without asking my ethnicity?Community AnswerYes, it is. Assuming someone's ethnicity is rude. In the future, I would just politely tell them that you aren't Japanese and that you don't like it when people assume your ethnicity.Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
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- ↑ https://flipjapanguide.com/weeaboo/
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/20/arts/television/best-international-tv-shows.html
- ↑ https://www.cbr.com/otaku-or-weeb-the-differences-insults
- ↑ https://blog.academicyear.org/7-ways-to-learn-about-a-different-culture/
- ↑ https://www.japan-guide.com/e/e620.html
- ↑ https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/weeaboo
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About This Article
If you want to avoid becoming a weeaboo, try not to let an interest in Japanese culture turn into an obsession. Avoid mixing Japanese phrases into your conversation, like kawaii and chibi, unless you actually speak the language. Don’t prioritize Japanese products just because they’re Japanese, like soaps or clothing that are very similar to options you could find in your own culture, and avoid dressing like an anime character on a daily basis. Read on to learn tips for admiring and learning about Japanese society in a healthy way.