How to Be a Good Partner in a Lesbian or Nonbinary Relationship

This article will show you how to be a good partner in a lesbian (or nonbinary) relationship.

Steps

  1. Some argue that there are various "love languages" that people use to express and receive love. Love expressed through words, love expressed through time spent together, love shown through gifts, love expressed through physical touch, and love done through acts of service are examples of these languages.
  2. Remember what they enjoy doing and what they enjoy discussing. You don't have to pretend to be interested in their hobbies, but you should try to understand why they are. Try to figure out why they like a band. If they simply enjoy being immature and playful, keep in mind that it could be their way of releasing stress.
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  3. It's fun to give each other small gifts when you're in a relationship. Everyone enjoys receiving gifts, and giving them one shows how much you value them. Don't go overboard; just give them a gift when you're feeling generous and want to show them how much you appreciate them. You don't want them to think you're attempting to buy their love.
    • You can also give bigger gifts on special occasions (e.g. giving your partner a puppy on Valentines Day)
  4. If you want to be a good girlfriend, you must learn to compromise rather than fighting or becoming angry when you don't get your way. To effectively compromise, you must both be able to discuss a situation calmly and rationally while understanding the other person's point of view.
  5. Confidence means being comfortable in your own skin; you will exude this without even trying if you accept yourself and believe in your own worth. You don't have to force yourself to be the most popular, bubbly personality if that's not your style; instead, be the best version of yourself by taking care of yourself and believing that you're worthy of their attention.
  6. You should compliment them more than you should criticize them. If everything you say in their presence is a criticism or an attack, they will not look forward to seeing you and will begin to reconsider being with you. Nonetheless, just because they are your partner doesn't mean you have to agree with them all of the time. In mature relationships, tactfulness is a better strategy, and establishing boundaries and making compromises are important relationship strategies to learn and practice.
  7. Create small routines that demonstrate your affection. Go to bed at the same time, take a walk together, kiss them before you leave the house, and send each other a good morning or goodnight text if you are apart. To demonstrate your love for your partner, set aside time to turn off all electronics, including phones, and spend time focusing solely on each other. Make a special date or activity for the two of you, whether it's a simple movie night, or a fancy restaurant date. Quality time is how some partners feel the most loved. [1]
  8. Show your affection by using your sense of humor. Tease your partner and pay attention to the little things they do. Always laugh at or tease your partner's jokes, and encourage them when they are being silly.
  9. Provide emotional support to your partner. Encourage your partner to tell you about the things that are important to them and the things that they are going through. "So, how have you really been lately?" you can ask your partner. When things are difficult for your partner, remind them of the things they have done well and all the ways things will be fine. Inform your partner that you are available to them. Truly listen to them and allow them to 'vent' when they need to talk. [2]
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      References

      1. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201501/7-simple-ways-you-can-become-better-partner
      2. ↑ https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ask-tony/how-good-of-a-partner-are-you/
      3. ↑ https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ask-tony/how-good-of-a-partner-are-you/

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