How to Believe in God

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As similar as some views of God may be, building a relationship with God is a quest an individual must take for oneself. This personal quest does not necessarily mean Christianity, any of the Abrahamic faiths, or any other particular religion. Believing in God means believing in a higher power. Here are some things to consider as you search for faith in God.

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Having Faith

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  1. Think of knowing God not by measurable events, but through an intangible presence in everything you do. God is Spirit, experienced intuitively, somewhat like experiencing love, air and gravity, and unfathomable love and grace.
    • Knowing of God has more to do with the heart (core beliefs) than with objects. The belief you form through faith and in a Higher Power than yourself, does not just happen. You do not wake up one morning, brush your teeth, and say, "today I am going to believe in God. Today I am going to have faith". Something has to happen for you to need and to seek out that faith. [1] If you approach faith from this premise, then you will see that believing in God is about reflecting on the impact He has on you and on others.
    • You'll find that believing is not by material means but by personal development of spiritual faith, since God is generally viewed as a living spirit, not having a decaying body, [2] He can be measured by intangible things, like acknowledging His presence, our beliefs, plus our ways and reactions.
    • Think about all the things you believe in. You may believe that a team is the best team in your sport, for example. But what is this based on? Do you favor them because they have superior statistics and more championships? Chances are you favor them because of the specific impact they have on you as a fan. Your appreciation for them is based on something inside you, individual, and immeasurable.
  2. Having faith involves taking a choice . This means deciding to trust without absolute certainty. [3]
    • Chances are you make decisions on faith every day. If you've ever ordered food from a restaurant, you've taken a step of faith. That particular restaurant may have a high customer rating and stellar health score, but chances are you haven't witnessed firsthand your food being made. You have to trust that the chefs have washed their hands and prepared your food properly/safely.
    • Seeing isn't always believing. There are still things science can't measure, yet people still believe in them. For example, astronomers cannot actually see black holes in outer space, because by definition they absorb materials and the light that is necessary for us to observe them. [4] But by observing the behavior of matter and the orbits of stars around a black hole, we can predict that one is present. God is also non-viewable but has knowable qualities and observable influence, that draws people to Him.
    • Think of a time a family member has been sick and gotten better. Did you ever pray or hope to something higher for their recovery? Maybe this event is like an orbiting star, and God is like gravity that is exerting His pull on all things.
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  3. Probably across all religions that have a concept of God, this belief is constant: God created all things . [5] Because God is the creator, only He is in full control.
    • Relinquishing control of certain aspects of your life does not mean you are powerless. Don't think of God as a puppeteer pulling your strings, but as a parent keeping you safe. You still choose the course of your life, but life may not turn out the way you plan or wish. In times like this, it's important to remember that God is there to help you. [6]
    • Knowing that you are not in control of everything can be empowering. Recovery programs like Alcoholics Anonymous are founded on the premise that people are not fully in control, and that belief in a higher power restores balance by yielding one's broken ego. Once we accept that we cannot control everything, we learn to accept things we can control.
    • Consider the Serenity Prayer: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference." [7] There are many things you can change but things you can't. You may believe that there are higher powers that shape your life's outcome. This is a great starting place for discovering faith in God.
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Learning about God

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  1. Try attending a Jewish, Muslim or Christian service. Listen to the words that the minister, rabbi, imam or pastor is saying and try relating it to your life.
    • Clergy often deliver a speech, called a sermon, that relates every day life to beliefs in God. See if things they are saying connects with you on a personal level. Though you may not know the specifics of your religious text, maybe a sentiment or point the speaker makes will connect with you in a big way (for example, treating your neighbor as you would treat yourself). [8]
    • Don't worry about not being of that faith. Though you may be restricted from partaking in certain practices, like receiving communion, [9] there are no restrictions for listening. In fact, Christians should be and usually are very happy when new people become curious and interested in the teachings of God.
    • Church services fall on Sunday and usually last about an hour. Synagogue services fall on Saturday. Jumu'ah prayer occurs on Fridays just after midday. It is customary for regular patrons to arrive on time and stay throughout, although it is not mandatory for casual attendees.
    • Catholic mass is usually a formal to semi-formal event. Be sure that you dress appropriately. Collared shirts, dress pants, and long dresses are acceptable attire. Also remember to be respectful; no cell phone usage and no chewing gum during church services.
  2. Maybe someone you know has a well-founded relationship with God. Talk to him or her about why and how faith is so strong.
    • Ask questions. "Why do you believe in God?" "What makes you sure that God is there?" "Why should I believe in God?" These are all questions that a friend might have a unique insight to. [10] Remember to be respectful and ask questions in a curious but non-aggressive manner.
    • Pastors aren't only available during conversion or confession. If you attend church on a weekday, chances are you will be able to talk to him before or after a service. Such teachers of God will likely be happy to answer any questions you have about believing in Him.
  3. Many religions believe that a good relationship with God starts with steady prayer of communication with Him. [11] God will likely not respond verbally to your prayers, but there are other signs that show He is listening.
    • Prayer is especially important in times of need. Many people have a misconception that prayer is a vehicle for wish fulfillment. Actually, prayer is not asking God to solve all your problems for you; it is asking him to help you deal with your problems/opportunities. [12]
    • You might have a tough decision ahead of you: pursue a job or continue on with your education? Try praying to God for guidance. See what choice you make and observe the outcome. Though things may not end up how you plan, think of this as another opportunity to pray.
  4. Don't think of bad outcomes as the result of God not listening or being present, but of His answering your prayer in a way you haven't considered yet. The Bible emphasizes the fact that God works in mysterious ways. [13] Think of God as a teacher, helping you learn important life lessons not by just giving you the answer, but by helping you arrive at that answer yourself. Think back to school and ask yourself, "Did my teachers tell me the answers, or teach me how to understand issues and solve problems?" Think of events in your life as "lessons" more so than "answers."
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Being Active in the Community

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  1. Try giving to others less fortunate than you by helping out at a soup kitchen or food drive. [14]
    • Believing in a higher power means shifting the emphasis off yourself. Helping others is a great opportunity to look at your life from a different perspective. Interacting with others who are less fortunate often helps you appreciate things you take for granted in your life.
    • Basic things like having shelter, eating food, or being able to sleep soundly are luxuries that some don't have. These are all things that you can thank God for and can help you believe God is looking out for you.
    • Be thankful and be persistent. Notice how people who have been not had certain things can still thrive. Tony Melendez, a man born without arms, recently played the guitar for Pope John Paul II using his feet. [15] Being thankful for the things you have shifts attention from all the things that are missing in your life. Focus on the positive; optimism is a stepping stone to believing in something greater than yourself.
  2. Try extending your charitable acts to everyday life. Volunteering is both unselfish and generous, but don't overlook the little things. [16]
    • When Peter talked about the healing of the paralysed man (Acts 3:2-8) he described it as a good deed (Acts 4:9) True believers in God can also offer healing of the sick as Peter did
  3. You can team with God to serve as His hands and feet. Simply holding open the door for someone can brighten that person's day. Little things like smiling, giving up your seat to the elderly on public transportation, or just saying "thank you" can bring you closer to God. Don't underestimate the effect a good deed can have on your feeling and believing how a higher power affects others through you. [17]
    • Think of times when someone, maybe even a complete stranger, has done something good to you. Maybe you dropped your cell phone and someone picked it up and stopped you to return it. Did you ever pause to think about that person's actions? Maybe that person was an answer to your simplest prayer: "Please God, just help me get through today."
    • "God bless you", have you ever helped someone and been told that? Try letting those words truly sink in and appreciate that deeply. What if a good deed is really God telling you that He hears and sees us and allows your intents and purposes to express His love?
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    The Bible does not instruct a Christian to pray every day. Prayer is talking to God. A Christian should “pray without ceasing.” You should begin your day with focused prayer, continue to pray in your heart as you perform your activities of the day, take breaks throughout the day to speak directly to God in prayer, and retire to bed with another time of prayer. A conversation with God never ends. While you are conscious, it is always in your heart or on your tongue.
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    Yes. He certainly does! John 3:16: "For God so loved the WORLD that He gave His ONLY begotten son, so that anyone who believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life!"
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    Definitely not. The Bible tells us about God, and we need to read it to draw closer to him and line up our thinking with what He says is true. But everyone starts somewhere. The key, now that you believe, is to draw closer to God through prayer and reading His Word (the Bible). The more you read and pray, the stronger your faith will grow.
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      • If things seem desperate, keep at it. You have a purpose and God knows it!
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      • Do not give up your faith, because some challenge comes along. When it knocks you down to your knees, look upward and pray. God had a reason for allowing free will and choice. We are not robots nor programmed by instincts or unalterable drives as animals. When you seek Him early you'll find Him. A door will be opened. When God closes one door; he opens another one...
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      • Everything in life, every path you take, you have taken for a reason, if you are following God's will. Write it down, and follow the path. Then one day, read that Book, and track that path you took. Understand how the first path led to an old way, a straight path.
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      • If something bad is happening or you didn't get what you prayed for, that doesn't mean God doesn't exist. God is just testing you. He wants to see if you truly love and believe in him. Besides, God can't always answer prayers.
      • Slow down and take notice of the things around you. Take the time to smell flowers, watch the moon and stars, spend time at the ocean. You will see God in everything.
      • If you start to doubt yourself, go to a church or sanctuary where you can have one-on-one time with God.
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      • People will disagree with you many times, don't make a big deal out of it. Respect other people's religions, they believe differently than you do. That's for each person to decide. Even if you don’t have religion in common, we are all still human and can share many other things in common. The key is not to focus on the fact that this person isn’t a Christian, but rather to find things that you do share. [18]
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      Believing in God doesn’t happen overnight, but if you trust in him and work on building your spiritual relationship, you can find your faith! Having faith involves changing your mindset and knowing that you can’t control everything. In your daily life, take time to pray and ask God for guidance. You might also ask God to help other people or thank him for providing for you. To strengthen your faith, try attending a church service in your area. Listen to the words the leader says and see if you can relate it to the things happening in your life. The church is also a great place to hear about other people’s religious experiences and be inspired. Besides going to church, volunteering is a good way to strengthen your faith. You could volunteer at a local soup kitchen or help out with a fundraiser. To learn how to do good deeds to praise God, read on.

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