A blessing bag is a small bag filled with food, toiletries, first aid supplies, and other items that could be useful for someone living on the street. Keep reading to learn what (and what not) to include in a blessing bag and how to give them out. We also spoke with transitional shelter & homelessness expert Dan Bodner and clinical psychologist Asa Don Brown for insight on the best ways to help those facing homelessness in your community.
What do you put in blessing bags?
Fill blessing bags for the homeless with necessities like non-perishable, individually packaged food items, small toiletries, and seasonal gear. Examples include granola bars, juice boxes, band-aids, wool socks, chewing gum, and chapstick. Pack items in clear sandwich bags.
Steps
Assembling a Blessing Bag
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Gather a few small and large resealable plastic bags. Blessing bags are typically packed in clear plastic zippered baggies because they’re resealable and the recipient can see what’s inside. [1] X Research source These bags are also compact and waterproof, making them easily portable. Using plastic bags is cheaper than buying cloth bags that may stain, leak, or not be able to be sealed.
- For one basic blessing bag, a one-gallon Ziploc bag should work. Use smaller Ziploc bags inside the big one to separate items like food and toiletries.
- If you’re making blessing bags to donate to a shelter instead of an individual, call the shelter before assembling it. Ask what they need and bring it in a regular tote or reusable grocery bag.
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Include individually packaged, non-perishable food. Make sure the food is non-perishable—meaning it doesn’t spoil easily and can be kept at room temperature—and sealed. Look for food items that are individually packaged and easy to open. [2] X Research source While sugary treats are fine to include, prioritize items that are nutritional and high in protein. Avoid cans and other heavy items that are hard to transport, open, or cook.
- Don’t include homemade goods or open food. These don’t have expiration dates or allergen warnings, and likely won’t last as long as packaged goods.
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Add one or two small, sealed beverages. Include small bottled water and/or sports drinks. Bottles are better than cans because they can be resealed after being opened. Look for single-serving beverages, as larger bottles could be heavy to carry around. If you’re worried about leaks, place beverages in their own sealed plastic bags inside the blessing bag. [3] X Research source
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Pack small, useful toiletries in their own plastic bags. Hygiene is important for everyone’s health and confidence, but living on the street makes it difficult to have access to showers and running water. Address this issue by packing toiletry items that are lightweight, portable, and don’t necessarily require a sink or shower to use. [4] X Research source
- It’s important to place these items in their own plastic bags so their fragrance doesn’t affect the taste of food items. [5] X Research source
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Include basic first-aid essentials. Purchase a small first-aid kit to include in the blessing bag. Or, add individual first-aid items like a small package of band aids, a tube of antibiotic ointment, or a disposable instant cold pack. These items are useful because many people experiencing homelessness lack access to healthcare. [6] X Research source
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Incorporate seasonally appropriate gear. In the summertime, people experiencing homelessness could use sunglasses or sunscreen. In the winter, items like beanies, wool socks, and mittens are useful to endure low temperatures. Add these items in the appropriate season. When including socks, it’s better to include larger sizes than small ones. [7] X Research source
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Pack a brochure or print-out with local resources. Homeless people in your community may not have access to the Internet or be aware of the resources available to them. Collect brochures for local shelters, soup kitchens, food pantries, and other charity organizations. Or, print out a document with the addresses and phone numbers of your local resource centers and who they serve—for example, some only assist survivors of domestic violence, veterans, or unhoused youth. [8] X Research source
- ”There are a variety of shelters and community programs that offer subsidized housing programs. Unfortunately, these are not always well known or well publicized,” explains Brown.
- Research your local programs and include their contact information in your blessing bag.
- ”There are a variety of shelters and community programs that offer subsidized housing programs. Unfortunately, these are not always well known or well publicized,” explains Brown.
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Add a personal note of encouragement. When people experience homelessness, they can feel dehumanized and unwelcomed. Include a small note with words of encouragement to make your blessing bag more personal and reduce this sense of stigma. [9] X Research source
- Things to write on your note include, “Take care,” “You are loved,” “Stay warm,” and “I’m praying for you.”
Giving Away Blessing Bags
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Keep blessing bags in your car or daily bag. This way, the bags will be in reach when you encounter a homeless person in your community, such as at an intersection or on the street. If you make many bags, you may organize with others to distribute them at known encampments or areas in your city with a large homeless population.
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Use your judgment. Most homeless people aren’t dangerous, but you never know if someone is experiencing a crisis. If someone appears to be upset or agitated, don’t approach them. Don’t wake someone who’s sleeping—it could startle them. Consider going with a group to give out your bags, and distribute them in the daytime. [10] X Research source
- If you encounter an emergency situation where you fear for yours or other’s safety, call 911 to request support. [11] X Research source
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Make eye contact and greet the person you’re giving your bag to. People experiencing homelessness are often ignored by passersby, which can feel dehumanizing. Take time to make eye contact and be open to conversation if they want to talk. A few moments of connection and encouragement can make as much of a difference as the contents of the blessing bag. [12] X Research source
- If they don’t want to talk, don’t force it. Not everyone wants to engage, so try to be sensitive to that.
- Don’t be in a hurry. If you have time to slow down and make eye contact when distributing the blessing bags, it will be a more dignified interaction than simply handing them the bag and rushing away.
- You can ask if they’d like you to pray for them. If they say no, respect that.
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Ask if the person wants the blessing bag. Don’t assume they could use the things you’re offering. They may welcome the gift, but they may not want it. That’s okay. If they ask for cash instead, most homeless outreach organizations and advocacy groups suggest not giving cash to homeless individuals. Be honest and explain that you’d rather purchase something for them that they can eat or use. [13] X Research source
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Don’t expect anything in return. When you’re experiencing homelessness, your life is much more difficult than a housed person’s. Common problems like illness, fatigue, or harassment are magnified. When you give someone a blessing bag, they may not thank you or may even lash out. Accept that generosity is its own reward. [14] X Research source
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Consider other ways to help. There are several ways to donate your time or resources to assist the homeless population in the short term, such as volunteering at a shelter or holding a drive to collect your local organizations’ most-needed items. [15] X Research source Contacting your local and state politicians to advocate for long-term solutions to homelessness can make a difference, says Bodner.
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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