How to Dress Like a Lady

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Dressing like a lady is all about choosing clothing that's appropriate and that you feel great wearing. For the most ladylike outfits, pick out clothes in neutral tones and get your clothing tailored so that it fits you well. Avoid exposing too much skin by selecting skirts and dresses of an appropriate length, and use accessories to your advantage.

How to Dress Like a Lady

Focus on wearing classy clothing and show skin sparingly. Wear an off-the-shoulder top for casual events and blouses for work. Wear neutral colors, invest in quality, timeless pieces like a trench coat or leather jacket, avoid loud outfits or large logos and accessorize with a handbag and silver bracelets.

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Cultivating Your Wardrobe

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  1. You’ll dress a little differently going to a work meeting than you would a night out with friends. Make sure your ladylike outfit fits the occasion and that you feel comfortable and confident in your choice.
    • Wear a pantsuit or tea-length skirt to a meeting or the office.
    • Put on shorts of an appropriate length and a light blouse to run errands during the summer.
    • When you're dressing up, go for something like a little black dress or a tailored suit—anything that makes you feel amazing and is dressier than your everyday look. [1]
  2. One of the most important parts of dressing like a lady is showing skin sparingly. You don’t have to only wear pants and shirts with high necklines, but try not to expose too much cleavage or wear skirts and shorts that are super short. It's also a good idea to avoid wearing excessively tight clothing to stay classy. [2]
    • Exposing some of your back, ankles, or clavicle keeps your outfit classy yet feminine.
    • Try to keep your skirts, shorts, and dresses 2–3 inches (5.1–7.6 cm) above the knee or longer.
    • V-neck blouses or shirts are appropriate for work, while an off-the-shoulder top is good for a night out or casual wear.
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  3. White, black, gray, navy, beige, and pastel colors create outfits that look very sophisticated and classy. Neutral colors will also look more expensive and give you a wide variety of pairing options when it comes to mixing and matching your wardrobe. [3]
    • Wear a black wrap dress during the day and add a beige shawl at night.
    • Put on white linen pants and a pastel blouse on a warm summer day.
    • Add a pop of color such as a bright blue scarf to complement a neutral-colored outfit.
  4. Some key pieces of clothing look sophisticated and timeless, such as a trench coat or leather jacket. Since they won't go out of style, it's worth spending a little extra to buy a quality piece of clothing that fits you perfectly and makes you feel great. [4]
    • Invest in a winter trench coat with a warm lining or a summer trench coat made of light material.
    • Look for staple pieces that you can wear repeatedly, such as ballet pumps, a well-cut suede jacket, or a classy black handbag.
  5. The materials and textures that your clothing is made out of have a big impact when it comes to making your outfit look ladylike. Choose fabrics that will last and look nice, such as cotton, silk, wool, suede, and leather. [5]
    • Avoid super stretchy fabrics such as spandex.
    • If you’re wearing a see-through material, such as chiffon, make sure you wear something underneath it.
  6. Clothing made of vibrant colors or fabrics, such as neons or shiny spandex, can be distracting. Try to stick to calmer colors, and stay away from large logos or pictures on shirts or dresses. [6]
    • Clothing covered in sequins, vibrant patterns, or other flashy materials doesn't look sophisticated or classy.
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  7. Layering is a simple way to make your outfit look thought-out and stylish. Since your color palette will mostly be made of neutrals, it’s also a good way to combine different colors with your outfit. Use jackets, sweaters, and shawls to add layers to your dress or shirt. [7]
  8. You should feel confident, comfortable, and put together in your clothing. Instead of choosing to clothe just because you think a lady would wear it, make sure you’re wearing pieces that you truly like and feel good in. [10]
    • Check blogs or websites like Pinterest for ladylike outfit inspiration.
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Building Specific Outfits

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  1. Making sure the length of your skirts and dresses comes to at least your knee will ensure your outfit always looks classy. Skirts and dresses tend to come in many lengths, such as knee-length, tea-length, and maxi, giving you options when it comes to how short or long you'd like your outfit to be. [11]
    • You can hem a longer skirt or dress to make it just the right length for you.
    • A good rule of thumb is to place your arms at your sides with your fingers outstretched--if your skirt, dress, or shorts are shorter than your fingertips, they're too short.
  2. A skirt suit is a good option if you want a more feminine work look, while a pantsuit always looks professional. You can even get the suit tailored to fit your curves, making it look even more flattering. [12]
    • Wear a colored blouse with a black pantsuit and heels.
    • Opt for a pastel-colored skirt suit and a white blouse underneath.
  3. These types of dresses (and skirts) are just the right amount of form-fitting—they’ll accentuate your figure while keeping the outfit classy and tasteful. Look for dresses with a circle skirt or skirts that flow gently down your legs. [13]
    • For a casual outfit, pair a plain v-neck shirt with a maxi skirt.
    • Wear a gray shift dress to work, run errands, or eat out.
  4. These will make your legs look longer, and they look especially classy when you tuck in your shirt or blouse. Make sure the high-waisted skirt or pants fit you well and aren’t too baggy or long. [14]
    • Wear gray high-waisted pants that pull together in a bow, paired with a white top and a statement necklace.
    • Put on a white lace high-waisted skirt with a navy blue blouse.
  5. Blouses are a classy option that can be paired with skirts, shorts, and pants. Blouses made of materials such as chiffon or silk look sophisticated and hold up well—just make sure to wear a camisole underneath, if necessary. [15]
    • Wear a white button-up blouse with a pair of black cuffed jeans.
    • Tuck a light blue blouse into a fitted white skirt.
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Adding the Details

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  1. [16] Clothing with a good cut and fit will elevate your wardrobe and make you look professional and put together. Check to make sure your sleeves and pants legs are the proper lengths and get any baggy clothing tailored so that you feel comfortable and confident in it. [17]
    • For example, get pants hemmed so that they're right below your ankles.
    • Long-sleeved clothing should reach your wrist, allowing you to move your hands freely.
    • If a blazer is too baggy or a skirt is too big, get it tailored so that it fits you well.
  2. Things such as your shoes and handbags will bring your outfit together. Choose heels or wedges that are a reasonable height, or ballet flats for a classic look. Pick out a handbag made of durable and classy material, such as leather or suede, that you can use with many outfits. [18]
    • A black or brown leather handbag is a versatile accessory you can use almost every day.
    • If you're wearing heels, make sure the heel isn't too high—you want to look classy while also being able to walk easily, so stick to a heel no taller than 2 inches (5.1 cm).
    • Muted or pastel colors always make for a suitable handbag or shoe.
  3. If the lining of your bra is showing through your shirt or dress, or the bra doesn’t seem to fit well, find one that is more comfortable and seamless with your outfit. It’s also a good idea to invest in other undergarments such as slips that you can wear under dresses or see-through articles of clothing. [19]
    • Get a bra fitting so that you know you're wearing the right size.
  4. Wearing too much jewelry can distract from the rest of your outfit. Try to choose a couple of pieces, such as a pearl necklace or diamond earrings, to add a little sparkle or sophistication to your outfit. [20]
    • Other classic pieces of jewelry might include gold bangles, a silver bracelet, or a statement necklace.
  5. You’ll want to give your hair some attention as it’s just as much part of your appearance as your clothing. Brush straight hair to give it some shine, or pull back curly hair from your face in a barrette or fabric headband. [21]
    • Give your hair some soft curls , or pull it back into a professional ponytail.
    • Straighten your hair to remove any kinks or uneven patches for a smooth look.
  6. Opt for neutral makeup for a classy look. While you can wear blush, eyeliner, mascara, and other types of makeup, try to keep it minimal—you don’t want your makeup to be distracting or overbearing. A small amount of makeup creates an elegant and ladylike look. [22]
    • Put on some red lipstick to take your look to the next level if desired.
  7. Even if you have the perfect outfit, if it’s wrinkled or has lots of lint on it, it won’t look very good. Iron or steam your clothes if they’re wrinkled, and use a lint roller to remove any pet hairs or other pieces of lint. [23]
    • Check the label on your clothing to make sure that they can be ironed or steamed to avoid damaging them.
  8. If you like to keep your nails painted, stick to neutral colors—these will match your clothing well and won’t be distracting. Colors such as pale pink look lovely and ladylike. [24]
    • Try a French manicure for a put-together look.
    • It’s more important for your fingernails to be in muted tones than your toenails—you can choose a more vibrant color for your toenails if desired, such as a red or light blue.
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    Consider taking them to a tailor so they fit you perfectly. Well fitting clothes will help you look your best.
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    Start with fitted, thinner fabrics as your base and build on that with heavier, looser fabrics. Also, don't be afraid to mix textures and fits.
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    Everyone has their own definition of “classy,” but there are a few basics you can stick to. For example, wear clothes that are tidy, clean, and fit you well. Most people think of “classy” clothes as being modest, simple, and not too busy looking. Choose neutral pieces and avoid wearing too many accessories, which could make your outfit look cluttered.
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      To dress like a lady, make sure to keep your outfits modest by showing skin sparingly and not exposing too much cleavage or wearing excessively tight clothing. Additionally, try to keep your skirts, shorts, and dresses 2 to 3 inches above the knee or longer. You can also choose clothing in a neutral color palette, like white, black, or pastel colors to create a sophisticated and classy look. Finally, invest in timeless pieces such as a trench coat, leather jacket, or ballet pumps for a classic lady-like wardrobe. For more tips, like how to accessorize like a lady, read on!

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