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Pro tips to set the mood for intimate times with your partner
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Intimacy is an important part of any relationship, but sometimes sex is the furthest thing from your mind. So what can you do to help yourself get in the mood? Try flirting with your partner or reading or watching something spicy. We’ve compiled a list of the best tips and advice to help yourself get in and set the mood for some intimate moments with your partner and how to best look after yourself so that you both receive maximum pleasure and satisfaction.
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QuestionCan you discuss sex before having it?Jacqueline Hellyer is a Licensed Psychosexual Therapist and the Founder of The Love Life Blog and The LoveLife Clinic. With over 20 years of experience, Jacqueline specializes in sex advice, sex tips, and relationship advice. In addition to being an accredited Psychosexual Therapist with the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS), Jacqueline is also a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF). Jacqueline holds a BSc in Biochemistry and Human Sciences from The Australian National University, a Graduate Diploma in Applied Science from the University of Canberra, a BA in Languages and Literature from the University of New England (AU), an MSc in Sexual Health from The University of Sydney, and an MSc in Consciousness, Spirituality & Transpersonal Psychology from The Alef Trust. Her work and expertise have been featured in Australian Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Australian Women’s Health, Marie Claire, and 60 Minutes.Absolutely! Anything good in life requires focus and communication. Think of it this way—if both you and your friend love playing tennis, it wouldn't be weird to talk about tennis, right? The same logic applies to you and your partner in the bedroom.
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QuestionWhat should I do if I'm not in the mood for sex?Jacqueline Hellyer is a Licensed Psychosexual Therapist and the Founder of The Love Life Blog and The LoveLife Clinic. With over 20 years of experience, Jacqueline specializes in sex advice, sex tips, and relationship advice. In addition to being an accredited Psychosexual Therapist with the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS), Jacqueline is also a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF). Jacqueline holds a BSc in Biochemistry and Human Sciences from The Australian National University, a Graduate Diploma in Applied Science from the University of Canberra, a BA in Languages and Literature from the University of New England (AU), an MSc in Sexual Health from The University of Sydney, and an MSc in Consciousness, Spirituality & Transpersonal Psychology from The Alef Trust. Her work and expertise have been featured in Australian Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Australian Women’s Health, Marie Claire, and 60 Minutes.Talk about it with your partner! It's very rare that 2 people are ready to have sex at the exact same moment.
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- Sometimes, problems in a relationship can make it hard to feel physically intimate. Consider talking to an individual or couple's counselor to address the problem.Thanks
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