13 Real Tips for Having Difficult Conversations with Your Partner

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When you're in a relationship, it's inevitable that eventually you're going to have to bring up something that you're dreading. Maybe you need to talk to your partner about helping out more around the house, or maybe you need to get on the same page about finances or parenting. Whatever it is, don't just sweep it under the rug. That just leads to resentment and doesn't really solve anything. Make some time to sit down and hash things out, and remember—communication gets easier the more you do it!

This article is based on an interview with our licensed professional counselor, Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC, founder of The Counseling Hub, LLC. Check out the full interview here.

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Address tough topics as soon as you can.

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    You might feel like you're just trying to keep the peace. However, if you want to have a really healthy, harmonious relationship, you have to be able to address issues as they arise. While it's fine to wait for the right time to sit down and talk together, don't put it off for too long—ideally, try to have the conversation within a few days of when you first notice the problem. [1] [2]
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Plan what you want to say beforehand.

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    Don't try to tackle everything that's ever gone wrong in your relationship. Instead, think about what's really bothering you the most. How does it make you feel, and why do you think it makes you feel that way? That's what you should focus on. Anything else can wait for another day. [3]
    • Really think about the deeper issue behind a conflict, as well. On the surface, you might be annoyed because your partner gets fast food several days a week, but deep down, it might be because you're worried about their health. [4]
    • Also, think about what you want the outcome of the conversation to be. Be realistic—if you're upset because your partner spends their money more frivolously than you, don't expect them to suddenly start saving every penny they make. However, it's reasonable to ask them to work with you to create a household budget you can both live with. [5]
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Talk when you're both calm.

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    If you or your partner are in a hurry, busy, overwhelmed, or exhausted, it's going to be really hard to stay present and calm during a difficult conversation. After all, it can sometimes be hard enough just to talk when there's nothing else going on. To make sure you're both in the best state of mind possible, wait until the two of you can sit down together quietly and really focus on each other. [6] [7]
    • It can sometimes help to go somewhere like a park or a coffee shop when you need to talk, especially if you've already argued about the topic before. The change of scenery might help break you out of some of the thinking patterns that you get into when you're at home. [8]
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Open the conversation with something positive.

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    If you can do that, your partner is more likely to feel included in the conversation, and less like you're just criticizing them. Remember, the reason you need to talk about this is because the two of you love each other, and this is something you need to overcome as a couple. [9]
    • Try saying something like, "Thanks for making the time to talk to me. I know you've been really busy lately. I just think it's important for us to figure out how to split up the housework so we're not getting so overwhelmed by clutter." [10]
    • You might also say something like, "I've been noticing that we have a hard time talking about where we're going to live after our lease is up. I know it's because we both feel anxious about it. Can we spend 10 or 15 minutes narrowing it down a little? I can do some research on my own after that, if it would help."
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Use 'I' statements.

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    If you jump right in with a laundry list of everything your partner is doing wrong, chances are good that they're just going to shut down and get defensive. Instead, focus on why this is something that's important to you. [11] [12]
    • For instance, you might say something like, "I feel disrespected when you don't call to tell me you'll be late from work. I wonder what you're doing and worry about whether you're okay."
    • Avoid broad generalizations like, "You're always late," "You never call," or "Everyone knows you don't care." [13]
    • You can use the word "you" to describe your partner's role in the situation, but don't put the entire burden of responsibility on them. For instance, you could say "When you pick up your phone when I'm talking to you, I feel like I'm not important to you." [14]
    • A good formula for I-statements involves sharing how you're feeling with a specific word, giving a specific example of a situation where you feel that way, and listing a positive need that you'd like to have fulfilled in the future. [15]
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Keep an even, neutral tone.

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    Do your best not to yell or cry while you're talking, and definitely avoid being sarcastic. Your tone of voice can be a huge trigger for someone else's emotions, so keep the goal of the conversation in mind and try to stay cool. This is the person you love, and it's important that the two of you can communicate about things in a kind and loving way, even if you disagree. [16]
    • Also, avoid tense body language, like crossing your arms, sighing heavily when your partner is talking, rolling your eyes, or avoiding eye contact. [17]
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Stay focused on the topic at hand.

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    When you start digging into an uncomfortable conversation, it can sometimes be tempting to bring up everything else that's ever gone wrong in your relationship. However, it's really important to only tackle one thing at a time. [18] Otherwise, you can both start feeling overwhelmed and end up arguing instead of working toward a solution together. [19]
    • For instance, if you're upset because your partner was flirtatious with a friend, you may need to agree on boundaries for your relationship. That doesn't necessarily mean it's time to bring up other things like how much they drink, how they dress, or how you don't get to see your friends anymore.
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Listen when your partner is talking.

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    Good communication is all about give-and-take, so make sure to really tune in to what your partner has to say. Stay present while they're talking—don't plan out your response before they've even had a chance to fully express themselves. Take a few minutes to soak in what you're hearing before you speak again. [20] [21]
    • One trick that relationship experts recommend is to repeat back what you hear your partner saying. It can feel a little strange at first, but it can help make sure you really understand what you're hearing. [22] [23]
    • For instance, you might say, "So you're saying that you don't want the kids to have screen time limits because you want them to learn time-management on their own, right?"
    • This helps your partner know that you're actually listening to what they're saying. Plus, if you don't completely understand what your partner is saying, your statement gives them a chance to clarify things. [24]
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Take responsibility for your part in the conflict.

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    Nobody's perfect, and if you're trying to work through an issue with your partner, it's important for you to understand how your words or actions might have affected them in the past. Sometimes, that means recognizing when your emotions have been getting in the way of a productive conversation. Other times, it means saying you're sorry if you've done something that was hurtful. [25] [26]
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Keep your cool.

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    If you get upset and start to raise your voice, it's probably just going to escalate the situation. It might even lead to an all-out argument—and that's definitely not the outcome you're hoping for. Instead, take a few deep breaths if you start to feel emotional, and wait to talk until you feel like you're in control again. If you need to, you can even call a 10-15 minutes time-out. [29]
    • During the break, think about how you can deal with things differently when you come back together.
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Find something you can agree on.

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    Chances are, no matter what the issue is, you both have the same underlying goals. If you can hone in on those during the conversation, it can make it a lot easier to work together. [30] Not only that, but focusing on where you agree, rather than where you disagree, can help take some of the stress and discomfort out of the conversation. [31]
    • Try saying something like, "I know you're concerned that I won't be home as much if I take night classes. But I'm having to work overtime now just to make ends meet. I'm hoping that if I can get a better job, we'll eventually have more family time."
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Work toward a common goal.

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    You might have an outcome in mind before the conversation ever starts, but it's important to be flexible and listen to the ideas your partner comes up with, too. If you need to, write down several ideas and talk about them again after you've both had time to think about them. Just be sure that in the end, you're on the same page about your plan and what you both need to do. [32]
    • For instance, if it just drives you absolutely crazy that your partner always leaves their socks on the floor, you might agree to put a laundry hamper on their side of the bed—as long as they agree to at least toss the socks in that general direction each night.
    • If you've been arguing about how to discipline your children, you might write down a list of rules for the kids, then have set consequences that you both agree on if they break those rules. That way, you'll both know you're always on the same page.
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Meet with a counselor if you're still having trouble.

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    Sometimes, it's just really hard for two people to overcome conflict together, especially if your communication styles or different or you never learned good resolution skills. Try meeting with a couples' therapist who can mediate your tough conversations. They'll also help the two of you learn new ways to talk to each other so you can have more productive conversations in the future. [33] [34]
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    How can you be accountable when resolving conflict?
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    Discuss the conflict objectively rather than rehashing it. Think of it like a debriefing after a game, where coaches are discussing how different plays went. Encourage your partner to give a play-by-play of what they remember happening in the conflict, and you can do the same. That way, you can understand where your partner is coming from while also clarifying your own experience.
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    How do you deal with a defensive partner?
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    Share your own experiences in a tense situation rather than blaming or criticizing your partner. Focus on how you're feeling and what you need, and explain how your partner can meet that need.
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