So, you’ve been kissing your boyfriend or girlfriend for a while, but you really want to take it up a level. If you want to elevate your kissing game and really leave their head spinning, we’ve got you covered. There are so many different ways to do this, and you can pick and choose the moves that feel right for you and your kissing style. The key here is to listen to your partner and take cues from their body language. We’ll show you how!
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QuestionWhat should you not do while kissing?Eddy Baller is a Dating Coach and the Owner of a dating consulting and coaching service, Conquer and Win, based in Vancouver, Canada. Coaching since 2011, Eddy specializes in confidence building, advanced social skills, and relationships. Conquer and Win helps men worldwide have the love lives they deserve. His work has been featured in The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, and POF among others.Try not to bump into each other during the kiss. You want your lips to lock together, not be doing their own things.
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QuestionWhat if I like the girl but I don’t know if she likes me? I think it’s kind of awkward. I have three crushes.This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerIt's okay to have more than one crush! But if you're going to pursue a girl, it's probably best to focus on the one you like the best. If you don't know if she likes you, try flirting with her a bit. You might give her compliment or try gently brushing against her in the hall. If she makes a lot of eye contact, she compliments you back, or she goes out of her way to be around you, she probably likes you.
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QuestionIs It ok if I don't make the first move if I'm the guy?This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerYes, that's totally fine. You shouldn't feel compelled to make the first move if you aren't comfortable with that, and it doesn't matter whether a guy or girl goes first. Just keep in mind, if she's not confident enough to make the first move, you may end up in a situation where nobody does anything!
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- When you choose to kiss impacts the amount of passion as well. A long kiss in the rain or in front of a beautiful sunrise is super romantic!Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- At first, just brush your lips softly against theirs. You don't want to startle them or make them uncomfortable by moving too quickly!
- To make sure your breath smells good, brush your teeth, use some mouthwash, and have a mint. No one likes bad breath when kissing!
References
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- ↑ Eddy Baller. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 7 February 2020.
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About This Article
A long, passionate kiss is a great way to express your emotion and desire with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Hold your partner close as you kiss them by wrapping your arms around their shoulders or waist to show that you want to kiss them deeply. You can also move your hands around your partner’s body during the kiss to convey your affection. For example, you can move your hands from their face to the back of their neck. Adjusting how you kiss your partner as you make out can also help to build the passion. Try a short burst of light kisses before you move into a French kiss. For more tips on how to have a long, passionate kiss with your boyfriend or girlfriend, like how to make the kiss last, read on!
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