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Draw your true love closer than ever with these witchy rituals
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Binding spells have been used for thousands of years to bind something or someone to the spell caster. Love binding spells are a specific kind of binding magic that strengthens a romantic relationship between two people. Unlike regular love spells, love-binding spells work best if you’re trying to intensify the love or rekindle the romance between you and a significant other. We’ve collected the best love-binding spells to promote a happy, healthy relationship between you and your partner.

Simple Love Binding Spell

  • Write your name and the name of your partner on a piece of paper.
  • Light a pink candle, imagining the bond between you and your partner as it burns.
  • Tie two pieces of red yarn together and bury the candle, yarn, and paper outside.
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Pin and Candle Love Binding Spell

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  1. This spell binds a person you know and admire to your heart and soul. Once you stick the first pin into the candle, say: “When this candle burns to the pin, the process of love and desire will begin.” [1]
    • A black candle provides protection and blocks bad energy while a red candle represents romance, passion, and seduction.
  2. Stick the pin just far enough that it sticks out on its own—make sure not to stick the pin in too far or it could break the candle. After putting in the second pin, say: “When this candle burns to this pin, the process of love and desire will come to a successful completion and end.” [2]
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  3. Picture what you and the other person will do once you’re together, like holding hands, kissing, or laughing and joking around. Stare into the flame as you visualize until the candle melts to the first pin, causing it to drop. [3]
  4. As you look into the fire, repeat the incantation below. Allow the second pin to drop like the first one. Keep one pin with you and give the other pin to the person you’re binding to you. [4]
    • “The Goddess of the moon, I summon thee.
      By the light of its rays shine bright on me.
      My wish is for my lover to never leave,
      Their will to be bound to mine.
      Only I have the power to break such a bond,
      Strong as the Universe and as pure as water indeed.
      This is my wish, when the flame hits the pin it will come true.
      This is my wish, so mote it be!”
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Sewn Intentions Love Binding Spell

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  1. Sit in a comfortable position in an open area, preferably on a Friday night during a full or waxing moon. Close your eyes and think about your significant other as you meditate on your intentions. [5]
    • For example, if you want to rekindle love with your partner or spouse, think about your favorite memories together, how much you love them, and why you enjoy spending time with them.
    • If you believe in calling on gods to help you, recite this before casting the spell: “I, (your name), call upon Aphrodite, goddess of love and beauty, to aid me with this spell.”
  2. Line both pictures up so that your face and your partner’s face stare directly at each other and press them together. If the pictures don’t line up exactly, use a pair of scissors to trim the edges until they do. [6]
  3. Cut 1 to 2 feet (30 to 61 cm) of red or pink string, thread it through a needle, and use it to sew the edges of the two photos together. Chant the following spell over and over until you’re done sewing: [7]
    • “Red hot love, burn bright in the sky
      We are connected, make this ship fly
      I know I love them, I hope they love me too
      Ours hearts are as one, we will make do
      True love, find me
      So mote it be.”
    • If you called on the goddess Aphrodite, finish by saying: “Aphrodite, I release you. Thank you for your help. Blessed be.”
  4. Lean the candle carefully over the photos until a few drops of wax fall on the back. If you can, trace the wax into a heart before it dries. If not, draw a heart with a red pen or lipstick. The spell will then be complete. [8]
    • Put the photos in a powerful place, like by your bed, with your spellcasting equipment, or on your altar.
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Ribbon Love Binding Spell

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  1. Perform this spell in a comfortable place where you won’t be interrupted. Write your name and your significant other’s name on a piece of paper, along with what you’d like to accomplish with the spell. [9]
    • If you’d like to strengthen the love between you and your partner, write, “Strengthen the love between us.”
    • If available, burn sage or incense to rid the area of negative energy.
  2. The candles represent you and your partner. You can place them on a table, an altar, or in a space in front of you. Anoint each candle with rose oil to promote love and send your message. Light the candles while thinking about why and how much you love your partner. [10]
    • If rose oil isn’t available to you, sprinkle rose petals around both candles.
  3. Cut about 2 feet (61 cm) of red or pink ribbon. Chant the incantation below as you tie the paper with your written intentions to both candles, binding you and your partner together. Feel free to modify this chant to fit your needs: [11]
    • “With this flame, I kindle our love. With this ribbon, I bind our hearts. Let our love grow and our bond deepen in respect and mutual affection. As I speak, so it will be.”
  4. Let the candles burn completely as you reflect on the love you had with your partner and visualize the ribbon strengthening your bond. Once the candles are burnt out, bury the paper, ribbon, and melted wax so your intentions will ground themselves to the Earth and become true. [12]
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Photography Love Binding Spell

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  1. At midnight, turn off all the lights in the room and place a photo of your significant other on the floor next to you. Put a red candle behind the photo and light it. [13]
    • Additionally, place a heat-safe bowl next to you.
  2. Write “Please visit (name of partner). Make them think only about hugging, kissing, and loving me. My statements have long-term influence.” Hold the paper over the flame and when it burns, drop it into a heat-safe bowl. [14]
    • Try to make sure the smoke doesn’t cover the image of your partner as it burns.
  3. While your intentions burn, say “God’s servant (your partner’s name) feels an electric rush of joy as the flames appear from behind them.” The spell is complete when the paper is completely burned and no smoke remains. [15]
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Simple Love Binding Spell

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  1. Optionally, write a short sentence that sets your intentions on the paper as well. It could be something like “We are happy together year after year” or “(your partner’s name) and I communicate our needs openly and overcome all obstacles together from now until forever.”
    • Include a specific period of time and state your intention like you already have what you’re searching for. Try not to use words like “I want” or “I need.”
  2. Light the candle with a match or lighter and sit in front of it. Close your eyes or stare into the flame and, focusing on your intention, imagine the bond between you and your significant other strengthening. [16]
    • Pink candles can draw in affection, romance, happiness, empathy, relationship healing, and the rekindling of trust between partners. [17]
  3. Tying two yarn pieces together represents the bond of love and trust strengthening between you and your significant other. You can tie the yarn together in any configuration you’d like. [18]
    • Optionally, chant your intention as you tie the strings together.
  4. After the candle burns out, dig a small hole outside and put the remnants of your ritual into it, releasing your intentions into the universe. [19] Cover the hole and the spell is complete.
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Ritual to Reverse a Love Binding Spell

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  1. If you get what you ask for and it isn’t as great as you thought it would be, you can reverse any love-binding spell with this ritual. [20]
    • If you tied two pieces of yarn or ribbon together in your spell, try to unbury and untie them. If you don’t have access to them anymore, try this ritual instead.
  2. The rose petals act as a symbol of peace and love as you break the bind. Chant, “I release you, (your partner’s name), from your burden” three times. Close the chant with “So mote it be.” [21]
    • As you chant, imagine releasing your bond to your significant other, letting them go.
    • If you’re breaking a love-binding spell that has been put on your partner by another person, keep the rose petals in a jar by your bed until your partner comes back around.
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What do love binding spells do?

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  1. Love-binding spells can help increase harmony, longevity, and love between two people who already have a close relationship. If you notice more affection, improved communication, and a deeper emotional connection between you and your partner, it means the spell is working.
    • In ancient Greece and Rome, tiny clay figures were used in binding spells . [22] Today, most binding spells are done using candle magic .
    • Use love-binding spells on people who already have a close relationship together, like spouses or partners. [23]
    • Remember to respect the free will of the other person and try to avoid using love-binding spells to control or manipulate others to do something they don’t want to do. [24]

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