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What is a cute way to ask a girl out?

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Asking a girl to a dance in a creative way shows that you care, but make sure to focus on actually asking her and not coming up with a really elaborate plan. Whatever effort you put into it, she'll appreciate.

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My girl is in a different part of the school. What should I do? We only have pie and lunch to talk.

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Ask her out at lunch time, but in a secluded area like in an empty hallway.

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What if you just want to ask her as a friend in junior high?

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Make it clear that you would like to go to the dance with her as friends. Do not lead her on!

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Should I kiss the girl I bring to the dance?

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You should only kiss her if you've gotten to know her very well throughout the night. If she doesn't seem comfortable with it, you'll have to give her space.

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What if she likes me and doesn't want to go to the dance with me?

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The best you can do is respect her decision. Don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to do.

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If she said we're going as friends, does that mean I'm rejected or did she say yes?

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It means that she likes you as a friend and that you're not going as her date.

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This girl is from my school and I want to dance with her at Catillian. Wouldn't it make it evident I like her?

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Possibly, but if she says yes, than that might mean that she likes you, too. You are taking that chance when you ask a girl to a dance.

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What if you don't have a lot of time to ask her, like 6/7days?

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Ask her as soon as possible! Act casual, compliment her, and go ahead and ask. Tell her you're sorry for asking her so late.

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What if you can't dance and are afraid?

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No worries! Ask one of your friends to teach you or take a dance class beforehand. Slow dances are pretty simple because they pretty much just require swaying back and forth with your date.

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What if I forget my pick up lines?

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Just say what's on your mind. Be straightforward and speak from your heart.

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How do you get a boy to ask you to elementary school dance?

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Be yourself around him. Hopefully he'll see how awesome you are and ask you to the dance.

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