Q&A for How to Be Intimidating

Walk straight at someone on the sidewalk. The faster they move out of your way, the more intimidating you are.

You can be intimidating no matter what you wear. It's all about the energy you give off and being confident.

Most likely you simply aren't intimidating. While trying to be intimidating, you simply remain silent and don't approach people. You may seclude yourself to seem less friendly, but in reality you look like you're scared to join the group. The number one thing is confidence. Stand up straight and be solid. If someone asks you to move, make eye contact with them and move slowly. If someone speaks to you, make eye contact with that person for a few seconds before you answer.

Being a "nerd" will not necessarily make you automatically exempt from becoming tough and intimidating. Moreover, if you simply exert your authority & power, there will be nothing to worry about. Be aware that this process will take time and will not happen immediately.

To appear more intimidating to others, act mature and keep a neutral expression. High emotions convey weakness. If you're talking to a popular person, remember that they are just people. High school social life matters very little, popularity is a game of body language and charisma, why be afraid? Speak clearly and make your sentences short and to the point. Make eye contact with intimidating people.

You don't have to be large to be intimidating. It's far more intimidating to have confidence; just follow the steps.

You're less likely to get bullied or called a wimp. It can help you get what you want if you're willing to hurt or scare other people to do so. It can also help protect you in the event that someone is presenting a threat to you or your loved ones.

Stand up straight, look people in the eye when speaking to them. Project confidence, even if you don't feel confident. You can fake it till you make it. Speak loud and clearly, and don’t be scared to disagree with someone.

Make the change slowly. Stop yourself from responding immediately when you have something to say. Think before you speak, and speak more quietly. It will probably take you a while to change anyway, so just do it gradually and people won't notice.

To look intimidating, look confident first. Confidence is the key - be confident on what you wear, how you speak and your actions. Then, choose clothes that give people the sign that you're not someone to mess with. Something professional, but that also suits you. For makeup, do not overdo it. Go with the smoky and red lips, if you want. Just remember that these efforts on looking intimidating will not be successful if you don't have to confidence to do so.

Like it says, confidence is key. Do what the steps say, but do it gradually. Stand your ground. If anyone wants to change you, or make you do something you don't want to do, don't let them. You could try telling people something like, "I may have let you treat me like this in the past, but things are different now."

Fear must not be mistaken for submissiveness. If they are scared of you, it may be more due to the fact that your assertiveness comes off as negative, like a bully. The right kind of intimidation does not come from fear; it comes from respect.

Avoid trash talk and pointing fingers. Sometimes, being silent and expressing a neutral face and giving off confidence shows intimidation without being rude.

Yes. Just show them that you are in control. For example, just simply talk like you have authority and that should do very well.

You may not be following the steps exactly. You should show your anger with a louder voice.

You can be kind as well as intimidating. You do not have to change your appearance to look more bold. In fact, you being a nice person means that more people will be willing to submit to you. A nice person like you can still prove your integrity by having a determined attitude and confident aura.

The same way you would intimidate someone as a boy. Just look scary.

Everyone's tastes are different, but, in my experience, most girls prefer guys who are confident, kind, and thoughtful.

Work on changing your natural facial expression a little bit. Some people just naturally scowl, even if they're in a relatively pleasant mood. Try to smile at people (a small, relaxed smile, not a big goofy grin). Say "hello" to strangers so they know you're friendly. If you tend to dress in an extreme manner (be it lots of camo or spikes and leather), you might want to tone it down a bit.

Do not have a typical cute profile picture. Do not have an adorable or inviting bio. Stay reserved. Don't reply to everyone in the comment section or dms. Maintain your integrity and basically play hard to get without showing it.

Try wearing black clothing, and dark makeup, such as black eyeliner and a smokey eye.

Surround yourself with friends who have your back. Don't be afraid to speak up and tell them they are rude. Never show that they are hurting your feelings. Just laugh if they try to intimidate you. They will feel embarrassed.

The biggest part of being intimidating is your confidence and mindset. If you want people to think of you as boss, you have to think of yourself that way too. Remember, intimidation doesn't necessarily have to mean projected anger. Anyone who you talk to will try to read your emotions - anger, fear, humor. Most of the time, it is much easier, to keep a neutral response to most situations. This way, people who talk to you will see, that even if you raise your voice just a bit, or make powerful step forward, they'll know that if you're letting that kind of emotion show, they are in trouble. Remember: you are your own person, and if anyone tries to step over your line, they are a goner.

Try wearing more jewelry. Like a fake nose ring (optional). That will show that there is a rough side to you and not just what they see. Do not be afraid to tell them to lay off. Instead of saying things like "no" or "go away," say things like "get lost" and "don't you have anything better to do?" Come up with your own! Make sure to speak loudly and clearly when saying these things. You need to sound like you mean it the first time. Look them in the eyes with a straight face. They can say all they want, but I promise you it scares them off and they will show more respect towards you. Walk with confidence and dress with confidence. Feel proud in your own skin and know what you want!

They are only intimidating when you give them the power to be! They most likely pick on you because they see you as a threat, somebody who is strong. Show them that is what you are, strong. Listen to music that will boost your confidence, like rock. Walk with your arms swinging at your sides and your chest sticking out a tad. Smirk instead of a smile. Look forward and avoid looking around much. When you see the kid, make sure to act the same way. In fact, ignore their presence completely, act like you hardly notice them. If they approach you, cross your arms over your chest and look them in the eyes. Speak loudly and clearly. Don't be afraid to say no. Show them they messed with the wrong person.

Follow the steps on this wikiHow! Anybody can be intimidating. If you are being bullied, do not hesitate to defend yourself and tell them to stop. Speak loudly and clearly. Look them in the eyes even though it can be a little uncomfortable. Your amazing height is a step to keeping bullies away. Don't hesitate to speak up and walk with confidence. Keep a resting face when walking and swing your arms at your side. Take a few bigger steps and cross your arms high over your chest when somebody approaches. You can be kind and calm but don't lose the physical intimidation. You got this!

Yes! Any race, gender, body type, and height can be intimidating. Follow and practice the steps and you can be intimidating too. You have it in you.

If you are alone with your friends or in a space filled with people you don't know, be yourself but continue to use some of the steps, practice being more calm. Even around your friends. If you practice enough it will all blend. You can still enjoy your time with friends.

If you really want to give yourself a push, try listening to rock music. Listening to louder music can make you feel brave and boost your confidence. If you don't feel like talking or answering somebody, then don't. Simply ignore them or say "not now." Try working out or doing a few sit ups every morning. Practice your walk and your resting face. Your walk and voice is everything. Speak loud and clear. If you want to say something, make sure it's appropriate, then say it. Practice.

Follow the steps closely here on wikiHow. Start slowly by just practicing your resting face and your walk. Your walk and voice is key. Make sure that you speak a bit louder and more clearly, plan what you are going to say before you say it, if needed. Even if you are talking one on one. A slight pause can come across as intimidating. Stand tall and do not fidget. It will take time, but everything takes time. Start with these steps. You got this!